horrible back pain!

[baby babymoma2014]

I'm currently 21 weeks. And I recently started experiencing some horrible back pain to the point where I can't bend or lay down. Some days it'll be my lower back but today this pain is right under neath my ribs causing my ribs and back to ache. Its so horrible to encounter and I can't seem to find a way to ease it Or feel comfortable when it's time for bed. I tried having my fiance give me a massage to see if it'll ease off the pain and pressure but it didn't. I didn't experience anything likebthis with my first pregnacy so it's a bit much for me. And on top of that I notice some bright red tiny spots today when i wiped. I haven't seen it since. And somtimes get cramps. I'm trying my hardest to not over think. But I am concerned in a way. Is their anyone else experiencing what I am going threw?

[baby babymoma2014]

There was only blood on the tissue and my urine was the same normal color. The cramps have gone away but I still have the back pain. It could be ligament pain or the positioned she's laying In or numerous other things. I'm just still quite uncomfortabld

[Jewelb120]

it might be a kidney infection, have you noticed if there was blood in your urine or just on the tissue?
when i have back pain it's usually just on one side, and which i do some light Pilates, just get on my hands and knees and do some hip tilts which usually helps almost immediately.
other than that, it might just be the way the baby is laying.