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how can i get out of the house!??

My bf works 12 hour days and our relationship,is ****. Im not working i just sit at home,all day. I lost all of my friends with my pregnancy. The only person i really hang out with is my mom. I need new friends but im kinda socially awkward and dont like,doing things by myself. Plus im almost 35 weeks so,everything is super tiring.andim only 18 so its hard to findfriends my age being pregnant :/. But im,about to go insane.
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Omg that's my problem to my bf works from 11 am to 11"pm and all I do is stay home and sleep and wait for him to get off work to go eat ! I lost all my friends to when I got pregnant I'm 18 also and I'm 37 weeks
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At least we are close and will have babies to take care of soon! Lol my best friend is gonna be a tiny human that cries all the time.
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Haha inow that's why I can't wait to have her but then it worries me to I went from a party girl to a mommy I have no idea to handle a baby but I'm glad ima have to learn lol
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I wasnt that much of a partier.. and i babysat my nephew alot when he was only a couple months old so,i think ill do okay. And im sure ill have to physically remove my mother from the baby lol so ill have help,if i need it
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Im,more scared of the birthing than anything else :/
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I have never taken care of a baby I was always out with friends parting etc ... So I'm scared I won't now what to do wen she is here I'm also scared of labor idk how ima take the pain  Idont want to get a epidural
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I have literally the same problem. My bf works 12hours and I'm always with my mom. Lost a lot of friends. I HAD so many but now they're all gone. And I'm 21.
I always try to keep busy. Even if it's keeping our room spotless or I decorate it. I know the feeling of being stuck in the house all day lonely and frustrated. And always looking forward to when my bf comes home.
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Ive also,been thinking about not getting the epidural but i know,ill want something for pain. Ive also been thinking about different birth positions.
8765505 tn?1399764936
Look for young mothers groups you can attend to meet other young moms... or mother and baby groups where you can meet other moms :)

Your doctor might know of groups :) I hope u find some pll to hang with soon x
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Same problem here! Bored at home all day I'm 25 weeks and 16years old. Friends all ditched and my hubby is too tired from work to go do something fun.
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Me too! My only friend is literally my bf and my mom. My bf also works all day and I'm stuck at home. I'm not really socially awkward, I just have trouble making friends..I'm shy. I get really needy and my bf sometimes gets upset because I want him to do things with me but he wants to nap. I've been trying for like 4 months to get a job..no luck so far. I'm 28 weeks and 21 years old.
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Ya it suckss. And my bf has a ton of friends so he wants to go do stuff with them too when hes not working and he says he invites me but he doesnt.. idk what makes him think,he does. He never actually says wanna come with?
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