My fingers are also swelling. I can't wear my wedding set either & I HATE it. Lol I can't wait to put them back on.
Fingers should go back. I can't wear mine either even though it doesnt look my fingers have gotten any bigger.
I know your feet grow from swelling and they stay a bit bigger after you have your baby. I'm not too sure about your fingers
I'm in the same boat :( my hubby picked out a beautiful set for me and I couldn't wear them like 3 weeks after I found out! Except I have huge fingers (I wear a size 9.5 normally) so I feel weird about wearing them as a necklace...
They'll go back to normal - it's just temporary edema and happens to pretty much everyone. Just put them on a secure simple necklace and wear them like dog tags - that's what I did with my first and what I'm sure I'll have to do again.
Does your doctor know your hands are swelling up? Make sure you let them know. I would wait til after baby to find out so you don't resize then need to do it again. Wear them on a necklace until then?