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instead of my life gettin better its getting worse

I try my hardest not to cry nor stress myself but being pregnant makes me so emotional me and my boyfriend saved up four thousand dollars for us to move a better place and to buy my baby stuff but him being a party animal like clubbing and stuff im guessing he spent the money on strippers and drinks since he likes to show off we went from four thousand dollars to zero dollars next week ima 8months pregnant don't have nothing ready for my baby yet my birthday is on wednesday the 26 can't even get my hair done nor go out to eat all because of his irresponsible self.... I really feel like doing some damage to him but im not really trying to hurt myself nor the baby. But it's my fault trusting him with all the money not thinking he would spent all the money on ******** now im left with nothing I feel weak lonely in this pregnancy I feel like screaming as loud as I can to take away the pain that im feeling now I feel like drinking some liquor to ease my mind but than again I can't....I just wish this was all a dream .
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Thanks for the support ladies it's a blessing to have females like ya go share my stories with only because we all going through the same thing or have been through that but I spoke to him he said he willing to change I gave him  chance I hope he doesn't mess it up again but thank you ladies so much muahhhhhhh =)
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Dont stress yourself out...i know its hard...trust me..im 6 months..and i recently quit my job over job discrimination..and all the money i tried to save..my daughters father went and spent it on drugs...and he has yet to buy her anything yet..i thank god everyday for my grandmother..cuz shes the only one who has begun to buy her stuff..in the long run..everything will be ok..be strong for the baby..
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How long have you guys been together? I went trough that with my hubby in the beginning but he chanced so much after our son was born, he is a better husband now and im glad i stood by him through good and bad until.he got used to.being a married man, we love each other so much now and our kids made us mature and learn to love each other. if u love him a lot stay until ur bby is born, he might change. :)
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2026902 tn?1369098398
Sorry wanted to write more but had to leave for court.

Try talking to him. Being so close to due date you need him.now.

Men can be real a s s holes when you need them the most.
Hang in.there girl
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Thanks ladies I appreciate the support and advice...
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2026902 tn?1369098398
Aww I'm.sorry to hear what your doing thru.

When I was about 5 months ny husband started hanging out with wrong people while being laid off. He wad staying out till all hrs of the night. Long story short he got arrested ended up in jail for a month when he got out I was 34weeks it s u c ked getting things resfy so fast. I feel for ya.

Now he's back to old self
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You need to stay with your family. He obviously doesn't think you or the baby are a priority.  You don't want to raise your baby around that. You deserve better. Have your family help you.
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I know but im at my mom house for now until he come up with that money he spent and he's never home next week ima be 8months so im safer with my family for now
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1688492 tn?1346364370
Omg!!! Y is he going out in the first place? N buying strippers , now ur better then that n I wuld leave him, that is just crazy a girlfriend at home n baby on the way that's not fair he shuldnt b going out he shuld b at home with u!!! And to spend all that money knowing u all need baby stuff!!!
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Thanks ma I hope so 2........
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Talk to him!!
He needs to learn some responsibility big time.
But.. u still have some time till ur baby arrives so hopefully you two can save some money again at least a little just for baby stuff and necessities.
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