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just need to vent.

My sister & my nephew is staying the night tonight. Ok i been up since 4:30 this mornin being that i had to work. So my sister cooked dinner which was nice, but  my nephew & my daughter, but especially my nephew aggravated the sh.t out of me.Then i had food all on my dining floor, & my sister left my kitchen a mess. She washed out everything she cooked out of but it was stuff everywhere. She let the trash overflow instead of pushing it down. So i had to clean my kitchen good & my dining room & sweep & mop my kitchen & dining floor because i dont have roaches & dont want none. I know im just being very sensitive & aggravated but when it comes to my home, i hate a mess. It's just my 3yrold daughter & i so im not use to big messes. Ok i feel better lol
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If you do say something. I would just mention 1 thing that bothered you. If its just an over night stay you don't want to overwhelm her with every little thing. Then she may feel unwanted. I personally wouldn't say anything unless it was a longer visit. But its your house to decide. I have my parents over for dinner and sister (who would never think to cook for me let a lone attempt to clean up!) I tend to hold my tounge because I know its only a day and I want them to feel comfortable. But my personality is to always hold my tounge :) lol.
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@mommikat yea you right. I just didnt want to be mean or make her feel unwelcomed. I almost went crazy. & @jessicamae79 yess ! Drives me crazy
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Lol I can't stand a mess house either it drives me insane
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Lol I would lay down the house rules very politely. She won't know What ticks you off unless you tell her. But I def understand.
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