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4456535 tn?1355894638

men are pigs!!

I dont know if any of you ladies get this but i do. And its annoying! I mean there is guys that go to my job and try to hit on me im 3months pregnant so i say im married (which im not) and im pregnant and they still try to flirt and its like seriously! Agh. This is the 5th time this week i mean you can notice my little belly in certain work shirts and its like the most common things they say is "dont worry i'll be the babby daddy" i just look at them and say no i have my man but im thinkin you arent even able to wipe your a** right. Today my manager got mad because i lost it with a customer because he was ordering his food and i had sat down to eat some tenders and he goes up to me and tries to flirt..it makes me want to quit. Does anyone else get this?
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4545793 tn?1394592544
Ya I was out with my mom and guys were making comments towards me and im almost 6 months pregnant and I have the pregnant waddle but still they kept on coming so men find pregnant women sexy idk what it is lol Im like ya spend the day with me around me farting and my mood swings u will really like me then lol
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4456535 tn?1355894638
Lol one of my mangers is my brother in law and yea he stands up for me when i work with him. And theres only two guys that work with me at work everyone else is girls. So i mostly work nights cause of school so i mostly work with females rarely guys. Lately ive asked my boyfriend to be there when i work but he found him a awsome job and now cant be there it only seems to happen when hes not around. He wants me to quit but i can because i have my bills to pay and i dont want to be a burden even though he says i wont. But i like paying for my own things
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I was hit on before I was pregnant, and now it seems to be even worse.   I am sorry you are going through this and the fact that your boss gets upset with you when you go off on a customer hitting on you is wrong.   I have all male managers and they all stand up for me and will tell customers off for me if they see they are
Flirting with me.  There was only one customer they didn't do it with and he is now my bf lol.   I'm sorry and will be praying for these nasty guys to back the heck off
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I used to work at Popeye's and I would tell guys I was married but I'm not and one was like well how long have you had that problem? And guys would come through the drive thru asking me what time I got off and writing there number on napkins when they had carseats in the backseat! Some guys are just terrible
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How horrible for you and a woman and for women who are pregnant! So disrespectful!! I often wonder if Men will ever find a new way of challenging their egos? Don't pay much attention, it is annoying, but stressing stressing is the last thing you and baby need right now! Good luck with the rest of your Pregnancy Btw
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4592444 tn?1362029703
I had that alot with my first pregnancy. I couldn't wear my wedding rings because I had lost too much weight, and the most commen comment I got was slog th lines of, I'll still do you even though you're pregnant. I hated it
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4456535 tn?1355894638
I get you sometimes i feel that i should wear a sign in my hat sayin prego and happily married lol(fake not married yet lol) to see if those guys still try and its more annoying if they have their baby with them or kid like about a week ago this old guy late 30s early 40s was with his daughter tried hittin on me the only good thing his daughter told him ima tell mom
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4191640 tn?1361174727
I had It all the time before bein' prego and for awhile when prego and I got highly annoyed by It. It stopped once my belly got huge, thank god 'cuz It's very annoying. I still have guys come up to me and talk to me or make excuses to talk to me askin' where somethin' Is and then start conversations, but It's hasn't been like very flirtatious to the point that I wanna kick 'em In their nuts. Lol.
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Im nice to until you cross the line, i have no problem putting someone in there place, & i worked at burger king when i got pregnant last year no body knew cus i wasnt showing, but i had to leave the enviroment was so unorganized & though some of the customers made me laugh alot, it just wasnt worth all the disgusting perverts & anoying co workers. I was getting paid enough for all that lol
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4456535 tn?1355894638
Yea i mean i got it before being pregnant too so all i would say is oo you want my number i'll give you my boyfriends so you can ask him if he can give it to you and they always say im stuck up. Im pretty nice even though i deal with rude customers. I work at churchs chicken and theres alot of creepy men that go
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4437866 tn?1388119624
Yea I do.. it makes me sick.. some I get flattered by but some you can see the intentions in their eyes.. for some reason men love to have sex with pregnant women. Its almost a fetish to them. Most of the time its just nasty the men that come up to me.. then there are those that make me blush. Sweet comments. And such.. but I just walk away.
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Use to get that all the time when i was working, not while pregnant though but my co wokers knew my boyfriend & still had audacity to try to flirt & make comments & i use to get hit on all the time by my costumer even if i tell them i had a bf, & if i didnt give them my number or pay them any mind they'd get an attitude with me, i couldnt stand it, its really disrespectful.
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