milky discharge what is wrong with me?please help......

[nancyzermeno]

Hi I have been trying to conceive for about a year but finally gave up because I always had my hopes up and they always broke .I have irregular periods so last month I drank birth control pills to get a period .I had my period on Oct 9 .It last for 6 days .On the 20 and 23 I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend. about a week later I  started getting some cramps like I was gng  to get my af. I waited till Nov 6 thinking that maybe I could be pregnant  to take a pregnancy test.It came back negative .;( a couple of days later I notice that my abdominal was bloated  so I started checking my cervix and it was high and soft with a lot of milky discharge not smelly at all .I also notice that I use the bathroom more frequently .I even get up in the middle of the night to use it something that never happened before .I get some headaches but they feel like pressure in my head they last a couple of minutes and then go away and comeback later. Other then that am okay ...my question is does anybody experience this symptoms in early pregnancy .I don't want to go waist 20 dollars in another hpt  please help thank you

[SammyLou22]

Even if it turns up that you are not pregnant (crossing my fingers that you are) don't give up.  I know how hard it is.  My husband and I tried for over a year until we finally got pregnant.  When we finally did get pregnant we ended up having two miscarriages.  It's been an extremely tough and an emotional year for us.  We are pregnant again (3rd time this year) but if we just gave up we wouldn't get a baby that we so desperatly want.  We are still early in this pregnancy so we never know with this one either, but you just have to keep truckin along and hope for the best!

[nancyzermeno]

Thank you ,I will try to go buy some at the 99 cents store ..... hope I am

[vacuumprincess]

Yes.  Those were my symptoms with all my pregnancies, even before I tested.  I always first noticed more discharge.  Sometime white, sometimes milky.  It felt like af was comming.  I was always running to the bathroom to be sure it wasn't af.  The cramps felt the same, but lasted longer than normal af cramps (started earlier too)  With my other 2 pregnancies, I had a lot of breast tenderness, but not this time.

You don't have to spend $20.00 on a test.  The cheap one work too.  (even the $1.00 ones)  Try  dollar general or some sort of dollar store.  or walmart has them for $4.00.  It is best to use your first morning urine & wait until you are late for af.  Good luck!