my feelings are hurt =(

[hippiemommy]

So i wanted to have sex today with my boyfriend and he said he didn't feel like... That really hurt my feelings i feel so unattractive.. im 32 weeks pregnant and i feel like my boyfriend thinks im ugly.. i dont know if its the hormones or not but im upset ..this is the first time he ever said he didn't feel like having sex with me... I told him how he made me feel by saying that  and he said i shouldnt feel that way just because he said no he said hes still attracted to me and he called me beautiful.. hes always made me feel beautiful. but honestly what guy in there 20's says they dont feel like having sex..  i feel if it was any other girl who wasnt pregnant that wanted to have sex with him he wouldnt think twice.. i feel so ugly

[hippiemommy]

I wake my boyfriend up everyday lol one of these days i know hes gonna snap

[hippiemommy]

Atleast im not the only one lol.. and omg @searra i would have definitly been upset if my boyfriend said that to me.. im too sensitive

[Alejandrina14]

I cried yesterday cause my hubby didn't want to have sex with me lol he said he feels like he's going to hurt the baby or I might miscarry from it. I had to reassure him that everything is going to fine...

[meatball90]

I wish i could have good sex again...i miss good sex... it just hurts at the mo.. feels sore and sharp. cant do any position other than doggie coz of my SPD... So count yourself lucky :)

[hayang]

lmfao i almost died of laughter.

[camsmom5483]

Sounds like me and my fiance im naturally emotional and with the hormones to top it off forget about it. Lol

[searra]

I woke my hubby up yesterday  and he looked at me and said touch me again and ill rip your heart out lol. Sometimes there just tired.

[ashkevin13]

Sweet Heart I would love to have had sex three days ago.. lol We are on week two! lol Its just either me or him just not in the mood. So def dont feel bad. Plus if he truly loves you, he will understand with crying. I cried to my husband because I felt like since we moved to Alaska, Our relationship has failed.. And now i have no one to turn too, since i live 4000 miles away. Its just are stupid hormones. lol

[hayang]

hahahahaha don't feel like an idiot for crying. we're pregnant. everything can be written off as a "side effect" of pregnancy, if you will. lol. hubby told me i was insane cuz i cry over....well, basically, everything. haha i'm sure he loves you despite the craziness.

[hippiemommy]

We've been together for 2 years.. and yea maybe i am over thinking it ..now i feel like an idiot for crying in front of him.. he looked at me like i was crazy once i started crying i couldn't help it tho my feelings were hurt

[hayang]

haha i think you may be over thinking it a little bit. lol.
my husband and i are really attracted to each other. no doubt. ever since we first met in 09, we've just had this amazing body chemistry that just makes everything PERFECT. but sometimes our libidos just don't match up. today will be day three we haven't had sex. i would've last night but he was too tired and i was perfectly happy curling up next to him and watching a movie instead.
how long have you guys been together?

[hippiemommy]

Its really hard to understand tho since everytime i see my boyfriend i want sex.. he's so hot to me ..i feel if your sexually attracted to someone you wouldn't mind having sex with them often ..and we haven't had sex in like 3 days. its like im pregnant ,sex is the only fun thing i get to do besides eating lol .i dont know maybe im thinking too hard about it

[hayang]

hey! don't feel that way! i'm sure you're beautiful just like your bf says.

sometimes they really just don't want to though lol. my husband is 20 and he complains sometimes that i rape him. since i've gotten pregnant, i've stopped "raping" him and just let him come to me when he wants sex (at least every other day)
i mean, even pre pregnancy he'd complain nd i had pretty nice body lol.

[hippiemommy]

Thanks ! I swear these hormones are gonna get the best of me

[ashkevin13]

My Husband!! lol He is in his 20's and doesn't want to have sex all the time, even before we got pregnant. Sometimes the moment and the libido is not there, just like a girl, sometimes sex is not appealing at the moment. Its most likely is hitting you harder since of our emotions. Just remember you are beautiful, even if you don't feel like it at times. You have a precious things growing inside you, which is shining on the outside and makes you even more beautiful then before. Good luck hun.