So this whole pregnancy we have DTD maybe 3 times and every single time it has hurt me so bad that I cry. Lube doesn't help at all. I am 38 weeks pregnant today & I feel so bad for him. I do other things for him, but sex hurts wayyy too bad. Ever since I had my first son 22 months, it hurts every time. When I was pregnant with my first I didn't have a problem having sex at all, didn't hurt one bit until after I had him and now my sex life *****. Does anyone know why this could be?