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5111430 tn?1377663221

my husband update!

So its so hard and I'm heart broken but i know I'm doing what's best! I told him i was leaving my mom picked be up yesterday, all he said was bye. He text me at 10 pm last night and said tell Sophie i love her! That's the last I've heard from him!!! Its hard emotionally on me but i know ill be better off! I just feel so sorry the my babies don't have a good father to look up to, but they will know mommy done her best to take care of them on her own!  I'm trying to keep my head up and avoid thinking about his lying cheating ***!  
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5111430 tn?1377663221
I hope i can stay strong too! I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do? How I'm supposed to get on my own two feet!
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5149794 tn?1374087979
Wish I was as strong as you momma! Mine hasn't cheated but is a drunk! I keep telling myself I've had enough. I leave and come back. He calls and says he loves me and to come back. My family says I'm young and naive but I'm 22 and 3 kids with him. Enough is enough hope you can be strong for your babies.
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5111430 tn?1377663221
I'm with my mom 5 hours away! He has to come here the 8th for court! (He will pull 12 days) because that was his last offer, he got drunk and tried to steal from Walmart!!!  I signed his bond so i have to be there an make sure he's there!
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5550067 tn?1375149180
As much as it hurts it's best to remove yourself from that situation.. His loss, he already made his decision to live like a single man. If he can't respect your marriage now he probably never will.. Try not communicating with him, he can go 'fishing' all he wants in the end he's missing out on his kids..
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5111430 tn?1377663221
I don't want to give up on marriage but he had cheated (online) 3-4 times now (since we've been together) sine February 2011. I can't do it any more! He recently started "going fishing" with a "friend" late at night! Doesn't want go be around me or in public with me, I'm done with the relationship!
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5306344 tn?1370122121
I will be praying for you. Marriage isn't easy and sometimes being apart could really show us who the other person is and how much you love them.
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4484425 tn?1384228334
He probably does love you but not in the way he needs to to be a good husband. Stay strong.
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5492154 tn?1374801006
Stay strong honey I know it's hard I truly do
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5111430 tn?1377663221
Ugh he called me! Trying to tell me he loves me!!
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5111430 tn?1377663221
This is so hard, because my mom doesn't have a home they mostly camp out now! But they have exceeded their maximum stay at the campground so we packed up and are trying to find a place to stay...
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5111430 tn?1377663221
I never though my life would be like this, but real life isn't a fairytale
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sorry, but you don't need a loser like that as the father of your children. I'm sure you are leaving him for the best and  you'll will be a strong mother for your children :) stay positive!
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4845170 tn?1369102292
I'm so sorry you have to deal with all this, esspecially while pregnant! But, know that you are a strong woman to be able to do what is right for you and your kids. A lot of women would stick around way to long and make things harder in the long run. Way to go mama! You are am awesome roll model for your babies!
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5492154 tn?1374801006
I'm sorry you're going through this but it gets better i have two boy I'm raising on my own and I left my husband for similar reasons a little over a year ago, it's tough but gets better
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