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nervous n scared

So I have a obgyn appointment in a few hours to find out if I lost the baby or not....im so nervous and afraid to find out.  Im hoping for the best but fearing hearing the worst.....:"/
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I'm really sorry about your loss. No matter how far along or not far along you were, I know it hurts and no amount of nice words can take that away. I had a miscarriage last year and after that I just lost it. I began spending my days researching everything there is to know about m/c looking for an answer. I was angry with myself and everyone else. I didn't enjoy anything or anyone, any holidays and especially anybody else's babies. I tried and tried for another one. Every time I had a period, I thought it was a m/c and when I finally got over that, I'd cry hysterically thinking I'd never have a baby. And my partner only added insult to injury. I think I really went crazy. It took about a year till I became myself again. I know everyone grieves differently, but I'm basically trying to say that I hope you try not letting this needlessly take over your life. I was blessed again with another baby when it was time for me to be blessed again. I believe that God has a plan for everyone and I pray you have a smooth recovery and another. Love you lotssssssss!!!!
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Sorry for your loss elizabeth726. God has other plans for you. Don't ever give up on you dreams and stay positive. Stay around positive people that will lift your spirit especially during this time.
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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I suffered a misscarrage last April I am now 11 weeks and 2 days I know it doesn't being back that baby but there is hope love you ladies best wishes if you have any questions or just need someone to listen I'm here
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Terribly sorry to hear that Elizabeth. Thinking of you both <3
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I'm so sorry for your loss Elizabeth and Nadia! I will be praying for you both!
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Aaaaahhhhh...... I'm so so so sorry Elizabeth! Never loose hope as everything will work out in the end, God has a plan for us. Surround yourself with people you love at this moment, it will be hard and take it day by day. Please don't blame yourself, things like this happens. Even if we don't know the reason for it, you are not a failure. I constantly say that to myself as well, know that we're all thinking about you.
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I'm so sorry hunny I hope u don't lose hope on having a baby bc of this and I hope u have a good support system to help u through this tough time my prayers are with u
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Thanks everyone
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:((( hope God gives you strength to get through this
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Sorry Elizabeth726. I wish i knew something better to say.
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I lost the baby.......:"""""""""(
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Thank you all! @Mom2b16- I was 6 weeks. Everything was going great until yesterday, woke up feeling nauseous, which is common in pregnancy. Took a quick nap with my daughter and my tummy began to ache a bit. Went to the loo and had dark blood discharge, said to my husband we need to keep an eye on it. I started feeling uncomfortable,  needed to poop and afterwards I had alot of bright blood and cramps. Went to the ER, apparently it's only an infection causing the irritation and blood discharge. Was sent home with no meds(which was very odd) got home and bleeding got worse. Couldn't sleep, I was in so much pain. So during the day today I had severely bad cramps with sharp pains into my vagina. I already knew I'm having a miscarriage, went to the loo and had a gush of blood rushing out of me followed by a few clots and then I heard how the little fetus plopped into the toilet(sorry if it's TMI) I fished it out to make sure and it was definitely it.
SORRY for the long post, I seriously don't wish it upon anyone.
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Im sorry nadia about ur misscarage. Thanks everyone for the good hopes.
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Terribly sorry about your loss, Nadia.
Hoping for the best Elizabeth xx
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goodluck girl your in my prayers hope everything goes well my prayers fo xu,good,luck think positive yu be fine
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I cant even imagine what you guys are going through, I'm soo sorry to hear that. Goodluck Elizabeth726 and im so sorry for your loss NadiaKruger.
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Sorry to hear you lost your baby! If you don't mind answering how far along and what happened? @nadiakruger
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Good luck, seriously hope you didn't loose your baby. Don't want you to go through what I'm going through now. Lost my baby today, don't even need to see my dr to confirm the miscarriage. Held my little one in my hand! :(
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Hope everything goes well!!!!
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