no means no!!!

[ihavesomethingcookininmyoven1]

My boyfriend is not understanding the meaning nooo! Im 12 w 4d pregnant  n on pelvic rest witch means no sex .. i want to but i cant n bf everytime we r alone he wants to make out feel up on me its not like i dont like yes i do but that leads to sex n i dont want to harm my baby over a night of sex .. i dont want it to lead to that i tried talkin to him but he got upset .. he knows we cant have sex .. n i tell him ill do oral like ill plesure him but i get off watching him get off n then i want it .. but i cant so i tell lets just wait but it seems like i hurt hes feelings he says that he cant help it he misses me .. i understand him but idk how else to make him wait ..

[dillonsmommy1228]

My husband wanted to all the time too n i didn't feel like it and even with me explainin it to him he still wanted to.. i thought everytime i hurt his feelings but then he found an article in a baby magazine bout they changes n what not of wanting sex for pregnant women.. now he understands :) just find some articles n let him read it about what ur goin through..

[4thonecoming]

My husband is the same way, I've been in bed rest for a month now and he's going crazy and makes us fight all the time

[ihavesomethingcookininmyoven1]

Ok ill try that .. cus he walked in our room not that long ago n apogized .

[ihavesomethingcookininmyoven1]

I kno i been on pelvic rest for about 3 weeks now n hes going crazy i feel bad cus i cant help him without gettin u kno!!  N i feel this is my fault cus since i got pregnant i been on him everynite n now its 3 weeks without i kno im going crazy so i can only imagine how he feels

[teregarcalva]

My husband was like that with our first. I was never on bed rest or had pelvic pains but there were days my back was killing me and I was exhausted and just wanted to rest and he was all over me and I was just like not tonight and he would get so sad. He understood though and would massage my back and stuff.