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5739095 tn?1374690666

no sex drive bringn bf problemz

My sexx apettitw is not what it used to be before an my boyfriend thinks i dont want him anymore and is not that at all i just dont hav the energy to hav sex, bt his comments make me feep bad. What hav u ladies done in this situations if you been through it or what advice u give me?
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5597934 tn?1373536864
I feel the same way honestly I just grit my teeth and let him get it over with
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My boyfriend eventually gave up. It was a serious problem for him but eventually we worked through it. We have sex sometimes because I feel bad like I'm punishing him, but we don't have as much sex as we did before I was pregnant.
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5739095 tn?1374690666
Ive done that too, bt i tell him i dont wan to an he says is okay an then just turns around an dosent even hug me makn me feel ao bad, this happend lastnight he left to work an ddnt even said bye
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I've been having the same problem. We can't help we feel SMH.
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*how
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With my first pregnancy I was pregnant from a girl and I had a great sex appetite. Now I'm having a boy and is so not good. I feel like not having sex but yet its not his fault my hormones don't want to. I just explain to him but at the same time I mean pregnancy at this time is controlling your body.
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5617652 tn?1374696728
I haven't had a sex drive for awhile lol my boyfriend works long hours and it seems the days he wants it, i just don't, and the days i want it hes to exhausted. Soo.. When it comes to that, tmi.. I just pleasure him on days I cant get aroused. He completely understands that i'm pregnant and my sex drive is messed right now
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I do not have that problem at all! I can not stop wanting sex, I think I get him exhausted.. but if he doesn't satisfy my needs than I am definitely not the nicest person ever. My first pregnancy with my son.. I hated sex, im expecting a girl with this pregnancy.
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5739095 tn?1374690666
im scared that when im bigger il get a crazie sex drive and he wont want to give me some because I don't want to give him some now that im so lil weeks
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5739095 tn?1374690666
Im in the same boat right now, my boyfriend is working double ***** 4 out of 6 days so the rare days I do want some hes tired and when he does I kant seem to want some, some days I just let him have some and I find that when we already in the process I get arouse and enjoy it
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I went thru the same thing with my second i told my man its not that i don't want to its just the pregnancy and be sure he understands u i talked to my doc about it to he said its very normal but it will be back after the babys born :)
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My fiance has always craved sex. we went fron doin it 2-3xs a day to maybe 2xs a week. i feel bad that i dont give it to him but i dont have the energy. and i found out that last week when i dont give it to him he whacks off to porn. im not mad about it tho. at least hes using his hand and not some other girl.
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5614780 tn?1413048079
im exactly the same too! my sex drive has gone out of the window by far,dont get me wrong I do get in the mood some times but not often! he makes horrible comments sometimes that makes me feel so bad, but the truth is. we cant help this so why feel bad? its very natural to not feel in the mood! they are men, they don't understand (most don't!) but you shouldn't need to feel pressured if your not in the mood. he should understand, I wish mine did. he thinks ive lost interested and it drives me crazy! x
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