annoyed/irritated

[love102110]

Im starting to get annoyed when ppl tell me "its gonna hurt alot" "with girls the pain its terrible" "you dont know cause its your first time so you're not gonna know what to do" "you have no idea whats coming" "dont get the epidural have it natural" like really i didnt know ughh, i know im not ready for the pain and all that cause i never had a baby before obviously i just dont like how they try to make me feel scared put pressure, stress on me im more nervous than scared but i try to calm and think positive, like they always wanna tell me things like that but never say "everything will be fine" i have faith everything is gonna be ok when the time comes, and i know it will  be my decision if i want meds or not, im just so annoyed cause not even my mom be telling me that all the time like my bf's family i just go along with it but seriously im getting irritated with all that -_-

[lielie5788]

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[lielie5788]

I feel the same way! Since I'm a young mother, other mother's would tell me "you think you can handle it?" Like seriously its my first baby let MW enjoy my pregnancy while I can, I know pushing won't be easy but let me enjoy my pregnancy whole i can!

[love102110]

Im not really stressing about labor either i do think about it i might get nervous but i know i will have to go through it either way, i feel  like im gonna be thinking about it even more whenever its time and try to stay calm but i just dont like how its always an everyday thing for ppl to talk about, its annoying

[Sammy_Bump]

I know how you feel everyone is the same for me, it's like I keep saying tho everyone is different and I don't see the point in picking ehats meds I want because I don't know how my labour is gonna be I might be to late for meds or I might be in labour for hours but I just think I will decide at the time when I am in labour instead of planning my pain:) and also I just think if I want my son it's something I have to do and if I don't do it I don't get him so end of same as the millions of woman in this world it's just something us mummies have to do so we might as well just accept that fact and get on with it cuz tbh labour is the least of my worries Im not gonna worry over something that I have to do and that I don't even know how it will feel people just try to scare you but even my boyfriends mum said it's not bad it's a lot of work that's why they call it labour but it's not bad and she even misses the birth of her kids, it's all part of being a mum and it is the miracle of your child's life I personally am looking forward to it :):)