not pregnancy related. but want opinions.

[Pamela0128]

So my close friend lives upstairs from me with her bf. Her kids 3yr boy, 2yr boy, 1month girl. The 2yr old is my biological nephew but for the past week they have been at my house constantly wanting to hang out like i understand us hanging out on 4th of july we consider each other family so why not:) but im 23weeks pregnant with twins and i always get headaches and i usually lay down but them being here i cant cause her boys are always crying or screaming. I get so annoyed but i dont want to be a bxtch and my bf will let my nephew stay downstairs with us if he wants to stay but he screams when he is happy or mad so now ive had a headache for almost 2days and my bf thinks im wrong for telling him i dont want anyone in our house today except us and our 4yr old daughter. Am i being mean? Or is my bf just wrong for thinking im wrong?

[Pamela0128]

Thank you ladies:) yeah i told her bf because she left for work so my bf just told him that they have to sit outside today but my daughter loves mommy so she has been relaxing with me:)

[taianasmum]

No everyone deserves their time. You can be nice about it. Just tell them your not feeling well and don't feel like hanging out today. They won't be offended

[Decembers_Gift]

You right and that's your personal space

[Nina159]

I don't think so everybody needs there quite time and peace for at least a couple hourse and with twins I understand one is hard work now growing 2babys yes u need your rest I would just tell your friend if you could just take a rest/ brake for today that you don't feel good or up to taking care kids at the moment if she's really does care she shouldn't be bothered by ur simple request

[ericatoday]

You are right your bf is wrong. And I think he's being mean for not letting you have some space and letting you relax with that headache. I'm sorry. :/.