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not sure who my baby father is

I had sex on may 29 2011 with my ex boyfriend then on june 30 2011 I had sex with my current boyfriend. My daughter was born on march 27 2012. I'm not sure who her father is. I'm pretty sure its my current the guy in June. I just want to be 100% sure. Please help
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NO one can here can tell you for sure who the father of your child is...only a dna test can do that for you...the only thing we can do is offer advice or a pretty good guess.....Not trying to be rude or judgemental but next time practice safer sex and stick to one guy. I don't know your situation but you should get a dna test.
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seriously....the only way to answer this question is through a DNA test
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Get a dna test so u can know who the dad so u can be sure for the sake of your daughter cause itll be more heartbreaking for the other person who raising a child that he might had with u come to fine out he not the father then thats makes u look bad as a mother
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If you had a period in June after you had sex with the other guy then it is your current boyfriends. Sperm can only last up to 5 days at the most in absolute perfect environment inside you. And since you had a period you basically got rid of the "waste" inside your uterus. The UNfertilized egg and extra lining in your uterus because you were NOT pregnant after having sex with the other guy. It is your current boyfriends by a no brainer especially with all the information you provided. Birthmarks dont have anything to do with it.
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My lmp was sometime in june.. around the 12 or 15 . Then I had sex with my current boyfriend june 29 and haven't got my period since
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My current boyfriend is black and I'm white and Puerto rican.  My daughter don't have a green mark hers is redish on the top of her head
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I would say u should just get that DNA testing if if u wanted to b for sure.
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So it can be either guy?
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Yu have to go back about 41wks cuz yu don't get pregnant right after sex yu have to give it time the best thing is a dna test maybe yu can have it done secretly if yu don't want any of the guys to know
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2032869 tn?1333989114
One of my friends had their baby March 26th and conceived in June so it's your current bf.

As for the green birthmark both my sons have them. Their called Mongolian Spots.
"Mongolian blue spots are common among darker skinned persons, such as those who are of Asian, East Indian, and African descent."

hope that helped
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2137220 tn?1340741325
You don't need to test if you don't want too! Seems your current bf is the father, I'd just leave it at that!
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You can count dates as much as you like...but there's no way to be 100% certain without a DNA test
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If it was your ex boyfriends you would of most likely had her in February not March. So i am almost positive it's your current boyfriends.
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2095820 tn?1333387383
I think it's your current boyfriend going by when she was born. When was your last period? And the only way to know for sure is a DNA. Hope this helped :-)
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And the birthmark thing i don't think is true. My niece and nephew r mixed b/w and I know they have a reg light brown one
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Idk girl i wouldn't base it off of that..I'd go get a test done for your own peace of mind. Does your current bf know? If not I'd tell him, it's going to be killing u inside not knowing.
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2109562 tn?1347253848
We can't tell you exactly who the babies father is. Only guessing. You have to Geer a DNA to know for sure. I highly suggest it
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2080518 tn?1357249671
Get a dna test done the time.line of pregnancy is in most cases a guess. You may have ovulated later\earlier than the norm and since you aren't pregnant for a full 40 weeks enless you went past your due date. Finding the correct father with help a lot in the future, you don't want to lie or give false hope to a guy and when it comes to family health issues their are some things that need to be known so that proper preventived messaures can be taken. Good luck.
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2080518 tn?1357249671
Get a dna test done the time.line of pregnancy is in most cases a guess. You may have ovulated later\earlier than the norm and since you aren't pregnant for a full 40 weeks enless you went past your due date. Finding the correct father with help a lot in the future, you don't want to lie or give false hope to a guy and when it comes to family health issues their are some things that need to be known so that proper preventived messaures can be taken. Good luck.
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Can someone please help
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What do I need a test for?  I thought her dad was my current boyfriend? .. since she was born March 27 2012 don't I go back 40 weeks. It lands on the week from june 29 of when I had sex with my current boyfriend.
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U can get the test done for free at a child support agency
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No their birth marks aren't green. Not all of them. My son had a red birth mark. And as far as the paternity of your child get a dna test. I'm in the same boat but my baby isn't here yet so once he/she gets here a test will get done immediately.
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Is it true that babies mixed with african American are born with a green birthmark?
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