pls reply..m dying with d panic atacks..m i pregnent

[roopa123]

hi all..
so the story goes like this...
i had my period on april 25th 2011.. my period lasts for 7 days.
on 31st april(which ws my last day) i was out of town with my boyfreind and had sex with him with protection. i usually get my periods some 2-3 days after my date. however in may i got my periods on 19th may , which was like 5 days before my last months date(april). I know i got down and i should nt be scared..i even took the home pregnancy test cos i was having frequent headaches..but it all came negative so0 i was relieved.. "BUT" this month...its freaking 27th june and m still NOT down..m scared..scared to death..is this alarming? Just took a pregnency test and it came negative.. m i having a  panic attack or does this thing mean something...can you please help..m only 23 yrs..i cant ..i juist cant have a bby..i will die..!!! please help.....  :(

[roopa123]

Thanks to all...
M just a lil scared.. And nothing else..can't share it nyone..I will b seeing a. Doctor today..

[Clysta]

I too am not too sure why you're nervous. Early or not, if you had a cycle and it was regular the odds of pregnancy are slim to none. There are dozens of reasons (or even none) as to why you might have a late or skipped period. If you're really concerned, see a doctor for blood work.

[tryingfor1sttime815]

I am not sure why you are stressing.  If you took a test in it was negative then you more than likely not pregnant.  There are many reasons why you didn't have your period on time this month other than being pregnant.

[ypmttc]

I totally understand..what u mean by the "23 and not ready".
Answer to your question -Yes It can be alarming and go see a doctor.
I had my period on April 19th ..ovulated late on may 20 and on June 5th got a positive on Home pregnancy test.

A small suggestion:
I don't want to be a moral police here but as you are saying you'll DIE if you got pregnant then think about your parents and the society before risking anything. Its very hard to deal these kind of situations in India. If you got pregnant by chance you will end up aborting or marrying that person. As I'm damn sure single parenting is not your option. So think and take any step.

[roopa123]

Thnks fr replying back..when
I said m 23 ididnt mean the "age" literally..I can't hav it cos I dnt want it and nt ready ..
My imp question was.. Since I had sex in april..bt gt down in may..bt m stil waiting fr my periods dis mnth (june)..can dis b alarming or not..

[tspeights]

Well im 25 and pregnant with my second baby my oldest is only 2 so i dnt see why you cant have a baby unless you just arent ready i didnt think i was ready either but it all works out

[dtravis87]

well im 23 and 26weeks pregnant so Im not sure why your panicking but stressing yourselfvout can cause your period to be late and sometimes not all hpt's are accurate i would suggest trying again in a few days with your first morning urine with a first response test and if it still comes up negative and you still havnt gotten your period go to your dr's office and get a blood test done because they are the most accurate thing....is there some reason at 23 you and your boyfriend cant have a baby?