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ranting..

So there was this girl I was friends with in middle school, we drifted apart in high school because she was a couple years older than me. Well she got into drugs and what not and ended up getting pregnant a little over a year ago. And the way she is with her daughter just pisses me off..
she was unstable to begin with and after having her little girl, its apparent that she still has yet to grow up. She constantly makes facebook posts about having a new guy every other week, partying pretty much every day and continuing the drugs. How can she let her daughter be around that stuff?!
earlier today she made a facebook post complaining about how she couldn't go out because her mom forced her to watch her daughter. And that post really pissed me off.. I dont understand how you can complain about having to watch your own kid instead of going out.. its her responsibility to begin with.. and sacrificing going out to party is part of being a parent.... I know its not really my place to say anything about how she raises her daughter but seriously? My kid hasnt even came yet and im more responsible than she has been..
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8399001 tn?1399031888
Wow minus my stupid touch screen typos lol. And I'll be the same with this child I'm sure, only I may let someone watch him/her, my mistake with my daughter and now she has major seperation issues lol
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8399001 tn?1399031888
These are the people i want to snuff in the face. I changed me ntire life for my daughter, i dont claim to be the Bbbb perfect mom but my daughter amazing, shes my entire world, not only is she beautiful but she is extremely intelligent, and advanced, she didnt get that way cause we neglect her. Jeesh, kids dont ask to be brought into his world, but some parents just make it super obvious they didnt want them.
I grew up without a father, i know Bbbb how it feels to feel unwanted. I mean sure i want a break sometimes, but my daughter is 2.5 and never spent the night away from home, so pffffft. Foh. I cant imagine giving my daughter to my mom and just partying daily and living like i didnt have a child. NO WAY in heckkkkk.
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Omg I know a girl that's just like that!!! She has the most beautiful baby boy but all she ever thinks about is weed and "being a bad *****" she posts pictures kissing different girls and guys and even when she was 8 moths pregnant she would lost pictures of blunts -_- I was like whaaaa? I mean I have no problem with teenage moms cause some are great moms and I mean great but some people i just dont get lol
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My cousin is like that. On Fb she talks like she never went to school. Talks about hoe she's gonna "turn up" every weekend and "always needs a beer" and talks about how her bf (not the father of her child) is an *** hole one minute and that she misses him the next. If you go on her Facebook she rarely talks about her son but says she's a good mom. I got so tired of it I just deactivated myfb it was annoying and making me sick.
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Going to be a teen mom myself and seeing how other girls around me treat their children I am determined to give my baby the best life it can possibly have and always be there to take care of him/her its still sad to see when they try to be the perfect mother in social media (in my opinion to gain attention) and in real life have nothing to do with the child.
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I have a "friend" who is EXACTLY like that..just a little different! She gave her baby to her parents so they signed him with her stepdads name! And now she lives with some guy that is not her baby's dad! She pisses me off!!! And what gets me mad the most is when she posts stupid crap on fb pretending to be a perfect mother when the last time she saw her son was when he was 6 months old! He's 2 years old now!! Ughh those types of girls are a disgrace to teen moms /:
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6520484 tn?1399082398
I pray the children have someone in their lives to show them love :( it would be so terrible to think your own mother (or father) thought you were a burden.
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I know very many girls like that. Its sad to see and hearing them complain about their own kids set me off. I've even gone to the point of yelling at some of them to step and actually be a mom. Its painful to watch but I pray those children don't end up like their parents.
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it's very sad
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6520484 tn?1399082398
There should be a test people have to take and if, only if, they pass should they be able to reproduce. Like if you pass a switch in your body gets turned on to make you fertile. It makes me so sad to hear about things like this. I can't imagine having that attitude towards my child.
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some women are very immature and irresponsible. The sad part is most children that are in the situations like that would rather be with the grandparents Or whoever's watching them.
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