sad face =(

[eloquenze]

Ok. So I have really been going through it. My life has hit an all time low and nothing is working out...housing, school, work, my relationships with bd family and friends...I feel like I have no one to talk to no one understands how I feel and how much I'm struggling right now and babys not even here. I'm sad to say I'm not even happy about this pregnancy anymore. I'm not happy at all and I just wish it was all over and I could go back in time and avoid all those bad days/events that's brought me here. I'm 5month preggo and I haven't gained but 5lbs and they keep telling me I'm stressing. I'm a ftm and I'm just hoping some mother has some advice or inspirational statement for me bc i dk how I'm going to make it through this pregnancy....

[kiriana]

I never imagined my first pregnancy would be lije this

[kiriana]

My pregnancy hasnt bern the best experience either! Im a 24yr old ftm an iv been feeling very alone too. Im struggling financially, my partner's away overseas and even though my family are happy im pregnant they havnt been doing anything to help me out and still treat me like im a ball full of energy who can do all these things in a day when all i want to do is rest an be looked after

[eloquenze]

Thank you ladies!it's been a month since being on here. Things are going a little better still being hit with strange obstacles but I'm pushing along! I've realized my nursing career has to be put on hold and I'm only 4semesters away. My bd lied about paying rent in an old apt we once shared and now I'm being sued and haven't lived there since last yr now I really can't find housing and low sitting baby is making a job difficult. But I'm determined to move forth. It's great to know that there are women out here willing to supportnme when my own friends and family won't ! =)

[cnamarieg]

I can definitely understand your situation. These feelings will pass in time. I didn't have many people to help me with my child and I felt alone for a long time but my son is 5 now and he makes me the happiest person ever!! Just looking at your childs smile feels your heart with love and those cute little words that say "i love you mommy" I just found out a couple weeks ago that I'm expecting my second child, at first I cried because I had plans to sign up to finish my nursing degree and felt I was going to be set back but I plan to  continue my education regardless. Anyways, you may be feeling down right now but things will get better. You have total control over your life. If things aren't going right then replace it with something else, don't be afraid to take chances. Hope you feel Better =)

[Joceey]

I really underrstand, i feel the same way, its been a GRAND struggle for me this whole pregnancy but I just try relax myself and think positive about the future. cause its all in our hands you know. You CAN do it. Even with a baby along with you. It might be complicated but not impossible, and you are capable of exceeding your limits even as a mother. Make yourself proud, and keep going for your baby. All this mess will sort out evenly were still young.  Youre not alone, theres people going through the same or worst than you. If you ever neeed a friend to talk to you can meessage me:)

[arianna92]

If u need sumone to talk to just message me bc believe me i have went thru sooo much since becoming pregnant but ive made it thru alot of the obsticals! So if u want jus message me. Im sure i can relate n totally understand

[jada0316]

In the beginning of my pregnancy I felt the same way. Even now sometimes I feel this way. I'm 24 and a ftm. My timing for this surprise was all off but I feel like this, you are never given more than you can handle. Everything happens for a reason. This little blessing will find a way to straighten things out.just keep a positive outlook on things and try not to stress the small things. Everything will be ok (:

[katiemarie123]

I know pregnancy can be overwhelming it can also bring a lot of stress and confusion because it's such a big responsiblity but just take a deep breath and know that it will all work out! Think about what your baby will end up looking like and all the exciting things that comes with being a mom. And all the hard stuff take one day at a time it will all end up working out :)