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sad & lonely

So I'm basically on my own 24/7. My bd picked up more hours at wrk to help take care of the baby and we can't see each other often and everybody in my house works and comes home and goes to sleep maybe 2/3 hrs after coming home. I'm kinda sad. I had to leave school cause you can't stay on campus pregnant and since I made my announcement of being pregnant, a lot of my "friends" stopped talking to me. Okay, end of my rant now.
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Awww I know what you mean my bf is at work as well and im at home laying down missing him... and I my friends have also stopped talking to me since I settled down :/ how old are you
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Those aren't your real friends. Try not to be sad or depressed all the time it's bad for the baby. Keep yourself distracted during the day
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8726042 tn?1399978830
Do hings u like to do im same way my hubby works till 1030 at night n im alone board missing him but i do stuff to distract me like watch tv do laubdry eat lol read to baby all kinf things
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Agreed. My friends stopped talking to me and wouldnt even try to come see me when i moved 45 minutes away but i still came to see them whenever they asked but whenever i asked for them to come stay or just have a girls day since i moved to a city where theres a mall they would say its too far. U now live like 20 minutes away and they still act like im the one who HAS to go to them. Like dude i am living on my own with bills to pay and cant afford to come down willy nilly, where they live with their parents who give them gas money and everything else.
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I know exactly how you feel. I moved out of states and some of my friends would ask me to go visit them. Like girl do you know how much is an airplane ticket? lol but you'll get use to it after a while of being alone. That's just how it is. Once you become a mommy you have to look out for you your baby and baby daddy. Those are your family/friends.
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Yea.....I sing all day and watch tv but I'm tired of doing that now. And I've cleaned everything I can put my hands on. It's nothing else to do
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9171934 tn?1405180032
:/
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I know its tough now,  it might not be the most entertaining situation, but look on the bright side...
Atleast your bf has a job and is willing to take more hours just to keep his family living comfortable.  
Some guys are selfish and lazy.
People come and go in your life, just have to find the ones worth keeping.
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@mitchcyif I'm 20. Yea that's true.....I just wish we lived closer to each other so that it would be easier for us to see each other. I've noticed that people who claimed to be my friends really weren't.
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8649931 tn?1399158794
I feel the same way!! :(
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I feel like I got used by them ya know?
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