sad

[lilbit0922]

Is it normal to feel sad when u see someone pregnant after u have lost ur baby even though it was a early pregnancy??

[lilbit0922]

Thanks everyone

[Arica88]

Yep just went through this last yr me n a cousin which I don't care to much for (she thinks her shiz don't stink) got preg around the same time and I had a m/c and them she decided to name her baby my husbands name. Said she didn't care what I thinks or how I feel bout it. Now 10wks scared and can't get the bad thoughts out of my head. Your time will come just keep your head up. :)

[Proudmama86]

*of joy

[Proudmama86]

You will get your lil bundle of when you least expect n it'll be the greates feeling good luck

[Myheartoryours]

I have 5 friends who are pregnant and it was hard for me to be happy for them because of my sadness. I would have been due July 9 and watching there baby bump grow made me cry. I am now currently 4w3d approximately and I am so afraid of MC because my last one was at 6w. You will be sad because what most people don't understand is even if you were only a few weeks along it was still your baby and it died, who wouldn't be sad?

[lilbit0922]

Yeh well maybe I will have a healthy pregnancy soon

[Proudmama86]

Yea theyre very uncomfortable n I know exactly how you feel I thought the same way with both mine but sometimes theres nothing you can do n you can be doing everything right

[lilbit0922]

I know it hurt when they was doing it, I always have things run through my head especially what cud I have done different to avoid a miscarriage?

[Proudmama86]

Not always the case your next could go perfectly fine every pregnancy n baby are different just dont stress yourself out easier said than done I know but that only adds to the risk just think positive and im not sure I had them do a vaginal ultrasound on me when I was about 9wks I guess it jus depends on the dr plus they get a better view so to speak that way

[lilbit0922]

I am afraid my next pregnancy will be a miscarriage! Are they suppose to do a vaginal ultrasound at 10 weeks

[Proudmama86]

I did after both my miscarriages I wanted 2 burst into tears every time I saw someone pregnant cause I really wanted my babies I wad 16wks the first time n like 4 or 5wks the second time but now I have a very precious lil boy who will be 2 in aug n im 14wks along with this but trust me it will get easier n better I know all too well n im sorry for your loss

[lilbit0922]

Ok thanks

[codibear]

Very. I had that twice, and i still think how old my kids would b. I just pray. Good luck sweets