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I dont know what to do?? I've been staying with my baby daddy, we sleep on the same bed there's times where i feel unwanted by him we really dont talk to each other not even thru the day, i feel like we're strangers to each other.. but he could talk to me when he's drunk he likes to ask about his daughter n hugs me etc...but i have no where to go?? What will you guys do if you were in this station??
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I had some similar issues with my boyfriend. We got pregnant at only 8 months together and moved in at 11 months. Whenever I had a problem with how I felt I would just tell him. "I'm not saying this is exactly how it is but I feel... " and I would do it before bed because yeah he would get upset but he would sleep on it and work with me on it the next day when he got home. We worked through a lot that way and now he just comes home and cuddles me. But it's been hard. But, honestly if youve tried that and you just dont feel it working you need to look out for you and baby. I told my boyfriend that I love him but this baby is number one and he feels the same way. Clearly your man cares about her but he may not know how to show it. So a feeling talk may help but it doesnt directly point the blame. Worth a try momma. and good luck! Remember you and baby are most important.
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No problem thats what we are all here for keep your head up mama
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Thanks u guys fot the advice it means a lot..
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I kno it may be hard and especially being pregnant and feeling not wanted or lonely but you really need to do whats better for you and your baby i can imagine how you feel maybe once you get the courage to leave maybe justthen he will reazlize what he lost just be strong!
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I was in a similar situation. The only place I had to go was my parents who lived 12 hours away. It took me awhile but I finally moved here and I'm a lot better off because they are so much more supportive! Good luck!! Be strongg.
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