terrified

[Cheryl0443]

Hi I'm 4 weeks 3 days pregnant.. but I'm terrified I had a bad miscarriage December 2012 had a bleed and when they scanned me they said I measured 6 weeks I later that day passed my baby.  im worried this will happen again I'm constantly going the toilet to check I'm not bleeding . I have tender breasts but not all the time have mild cramps but they come and go.  What is the percentage of having another miscarriage. . I see the midwife on 26th September just need some reassurance. .

[tipandgee]

I had my first miscarriage November 23 2012 @ 16 weeks my second may 28 2013 at about 7 weeks and I am now pregnant for the 3rd time & I am 8 weeks. I know exactly how you feel. Stay positive & stay strong the more you worry the more you stress the baby. Take it 1 day at a time. If you have to post on here everyday 4 support, we are all here & your not the only one with those fears. I wish you & your baby nothing but the best.

[Cheryl0443]

Thanks for all your comments im starting to feel more positive as the weeks go by.  Have hospital appointment to see midwife on Thursday super excited will keep you all posted. . Good luck with your pregnancy's I've learned each day is s blessing :-) x

[shaanaman]

I am having the same problem thought about just sleeping until 12weeks

[afisher428]

I am 4 weeks today and terrified. My husband and I have been trying for 3 years. This is my very first pregnancy and I am terrified of experiencing a MC. I believe the thought alone is causing all of my stress. Good luck ladies. I wish you all the best!

[afisher428]

I am 4 weeks today and terrified. My husband and I have been trying for 3 years. This is my very first pregnancy and I am terrified of experiencing a MC. I believe the thought alone is causing all of my stress. Good luck ladies. I wish you all the best!

[KristiAnn2011]

Sammy marie we have the same story. I miscarried at 11weeks 6 days on feb 8th and found out I was pregnsnt june 14th. I'm 18 weeks 1day

[mommabear11]

I had a m/c a year ago in july and i was 9 weeks i got pregnant exactly a yr later i am almost 17 weeks now i ran to the bathroom and did all the same things dr told me chances were slim to have another one this go round but once you reach 12 weeks the percent of a m/c drops to 3% but i still worry... if you can get a fetal doppler which you prob won't beable to hear the hb untill between 10-12 weeks but it help reasure.u while waiting inbetween dr apt
just try not to stress I'm sure you will be just fine and have a healthy baby :) goodluck

[AnikaP]

Also i have no kids my husband and i want atleast 1 child

[AnikaP]

I am 4 wks pregnant now!!!! However i have had 2 miscarriages in the  1 year and half, i was told the was no futher testing tht can be done due to iinsurance which i have really good insurance. But my dr can give me any ansewers far as to why im miscarriaging. I was on prenatal vitamins the 2nd time. Please help, any suggestions???

[babytime43]

Same here. I miscarried in July at 5 weeks. My first mc and it was horrible.  I have 2 healthy children already.  It was a shocker. Now here I am almost 4 weeks and constantly checking in the bathroom. I try not to worry about it. It's in Gods hands. I will keep u in prayer :) stay positive!

[Cheryl0443]

I'm taking each day as it comes I have a good feeling about this pregnsncy an hopefully everything turns out fine.  Just want next few weeks out the way and I will start enjoying my pregnsncy. . Good luck everyone with your pregnancy

[sammymarie92]

I had a miscarriage in feb at 8 weeks pregnant. Baby lost its heartbeat and I had it naturally. I then found out I was pregnant beginning of june so about three months later. I was terrified the whole time thinking I would have another miscarriage. But my little boy has been growing so well and is super healthy. I'm 18 weeks btw. Although I can't garentee that you won't miscarry again but I can say the odds are very slim. Just relax and take your prenatals are try not to worry!! Good luck hun and enjoy your pregnancy :)

[Tina1830]

I am six weeks and I also had a miscarriage the first time. I feel that this time I will go on to have a
Healthy pregnancy and baby...I try not to worry because its all in Gods hands and I'll be praying for u.

[Elaine Brown, MD]

Hi!
If you were my patient, I would advise you that your chances of having a healthy pregnancy this time is much higher than the chance of another miscarriage.  It is always very nerve wracking for moms who have had a miscarriage the first time around.  Often I will check a quantitative beta hcg level and then repeat it in 48 hours. If the level is doubling it is a good sign that your pregnancy is healthy.  I will then do an early ultrasound as well.
I suspect that your midwife will do that for you too.
Good luck!
Dr B

[sgulia2887]

Since you've only had one there's no reason to think there's anything wrong to put you at a higher risk than anyone else so your chances are still 20-25%.