Aa
sick of this leaving
Think im gonna leave this app sick of people judging me without even knowing me the bitchyness on here of some people is unreal either people dont answer your questions or when they do it turns bitchy laters to all the bitchs on here who gave me sh** I have spoken with some nice people on here you aint all bad just the ignorant ones have put me off im sorry if this has offended anyone and im not gonna reply to mean/rude comments so youl be wasting your time goodbye ladies hope everyones pregnancys gos happily and safely best of luck for the future goodbye
I just got this app a few weeks ago but i am very sorry to hear people were being mean to you, I hope with this small group of people you can find some way to stay. But if not have a wonderful pregnancy!
I wrote it on the other post but i wanna say it again. Im sorry if i was rude. And i dont want you to feel like we were ganging up on you but when it comes to pregnancy we all want everyones to go well with as few problems as possible. We are all pregnant and we try to help as much as possible. And i dont want yiu to feel like you have to leave, e were just worried and it seemed like you were mad at us for it.. so we got defensive.. but im am so glad everything is okay! And i hope the rest of your pregnancy goes as smoothly as possible.
Maybe next time to avoid this incident. Lets have less, rough, sex..
Maybe next time to avoid this incident. Lets have less, rough, sex..
Well she posted on the other thread that she checked in and it wasn't her water and her baby is fine so we can stop focusing on this incident finally!
Smh if you're job won't let you leave that's a lawsuit . Your baby comes first and you should kno better. ..them too if they know your pregnant. It's hard to believe this tho because in situations like this it sounds funny . If a job knows you're pregnant and won't let you leave they know that's a lawsuit and probably will prevent it from occuring
Buuuh byyyyee!! Good luck with baby though hope the rest of the pregnancy goes good!
Oh well at this point its her problem people tryed to help she didn't go don't worry your selvs and your baby's if she's not worried about herself and hers
Regardless of if she could leave work or not..most people just want to know if she at least called doctor. If so what did they advise? Is she still leaking?
I read her original post which she bumped 5 times. Suing vs not suing, rudeness vs politeness is all good and well. But can well update on the actual condition of leaking fluids.
I read her original post which she bumped 5 times. Suing vs not suing, rudeness vs politeness is all good and well. But can well update on the actual condition of leaking fluids.
There was always after work though inless He has her doing slave labour to :/. You've got alot of us worried and not giving any insight to you and baby are okay.it's frustrating
Its discrimination. You cant fire someone for being pregnant. And being pregnant means going to the doctor.... especially that far along. and when your water HAS more than, 99%, likely broken..
Having to be at the hospital during her surgeries to fill out papers to allow her surgeries. He tried to die and they came up with a bunch of bs and long story short we could not do anything...
If she leaves work and has done it a good amount of times for the same thing and it was for no reason he can fire her. He would say she was usein thinking she is in labor to slack off. My oldest had cancer at 2 yrs old and she had to have a lot of surgeries my husband got fired for
My point of view if I thought my water was leaking SINCE THE NIGHT BEFORE I'd absolutely tell my boss I need to leave and regardless of what he says (can't fire you for it even if it wasn't your water) and go get it checked out. The health of my child is more important than a job. Just my opinion.
Direct questions..
Are u still at work?
What did doctors office say when u called or went in?
Are u still at work?
What did doctors office say when u called or went in?
He cant fire her.. Thats the point. she couldve easily sued if he did. And i get that wouldve been more work then it needs to but honeatly it was for the sake of her baby.. all we wanted was to make sure she got it checked out. Dont title something ""TMI BUT ANSWERS NEEDED PLEASE" then "bump" it 5 times if your not even gonna consider what people are trying to say. I tried to not be rude and i honestly dont think i was but i was 100% worried about the baby.. and i still am.
People were rude. They worded their replies wrong to just be concerned. You did over react a little but that was probably due to stress. You can go about 24 hrs after water breaking before you start to really risk infection. With kids you don't want to lose your job... good luck and stay and ignore the judgmental comments.
Totally uderstand the work situation but her original post was over 12 hours ago. Still no mention of if water was leaking, if she called doctors office, or went in to have fluids tested. I get it that she's scared of losing job and couldn't leave. But whats happened since then? The concern is for the baby.
No problem mummyof3 I understand what it's like to be in a situation similar to yours and I know it's not easy to just up and leave especially when you have your other children to think about, hope all is well with you and baby and if you ever need a chat then I'm here :)
It's fine showing your concern but there's a certain way to say things and the way some things were said was borderline coming off as rude. But all has been said and done now so there's nothing anyone can do, yes she was rude too and she should have taken it better but again nothing can be done and when your frustrated, stressed and upset and no one seems to understand then of course your going to snap at people. I didn't comment to argue or anything I just hope her and baby are okay :)
Thank you demz159 :) at least someone can see my point of view it really isnt that easy for me to just up and leave work as I have two other children im heart scared of losing my job as me and children would be on the street im just tryin to be a hard working mum trying to do the best for my children working my pregnant *** off so my children have food to eat and a roof over there head at night so if thats me not putting my children first then yeah I guess i deserve the worst mother of the year award
I'm sorry but . Completely disagree with people being rude the Only rude one was her people were pushing her not to be rude but concerned there is a difference
People were being rude on her post, she couldn't leave her work as her boss told her no. I completely understand that and a lot of you started going on about how she isn't putting baby first etc which isn't fair on her clearly she was already stressing about her water possibly breaking and her boss being an *** saying she couldn't leave and if it turned out it wasn't her waters then her boss would have went crazy and fired her and then what income is she going to have to help baby?. I agree she should have phoned the hospital and spoke to a midwife to hear what they have to say but I don't think it was necessary to go straight to hospital without talking to a midwife/doctors opinion first as half the time they tell you to just keep an eye on it and if it hasn't stopped in a few hours then your to go to hospital, but some of you were a bit rude to her and I think it's unfair that she now feels pushed out and feels like she wants to leave
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