smoking pot

[sepowers]

Im 34 weeks as of yesterday and my boyfriend the past few weeks has been acting just so depressed last night he went out and got drunk and today he told me he smoked pot it really upset me but at the same time it didnt because today was the first day he was laughing since God knows when im just more disappointed because he has been clean for a year... I just don't really know how to feel...

[sepowers]

I guess im still kinda scarred from my last relationship because he was a hardcore pot smoker and a drinker not a day went by that he didn't abuse me in some way and he cheated any chance he got but I mean seeing my current boyfriend in a good mood for once just made me wanna cry tears of happiness but even though he has never laid a hand ob me I still went back to that last relationship and it freaked me out

[Alexxis]

^ agree 100%

[Caitlin1830]

I'm not going to read the last comments.. I'm just going to give you my two cents.

Every relationship I was in, I was against pot..  About a year ago, I've gotten into pot very hard core..  Me and my man - all we did was smoke pot.. It was our bonding thing... We always had a good time..  I got pregnant and stopped smoking..  My boyfriend still smokes and there have been days where he doesn't smoke and I just can't stand to be around him.. He's got a depression problem as well. As much as I'd love him to stop, I know it isn't going to happen.. I love when he's happy and when we're curled up watching a movie and he's all giddy, nothing makes my heart melt more..  I believe that people who don't smoke pot, don't understand... There is absolutely nothing wrong with it, it's just personal preference. Try not to get so mad... Disappointed, I understand... Sometimes when my man has his friends over, they smoke so much when my boyfriend finally gets to bed, he's passed out in 2 minutes.. A little pot here and there and nothing to stress over..  It doesn't alter your mind, like liquor..  It just relaxes you and mellows you out..  And it really does help with depression..

[sepowers]

And any little thing makes me cry I can be watching TV and out of no where I start crying

[Drew0rLeahAug2]

Your welcome and Yes I know what u mean.. that's totally normal for u to over react and be very emotional... I have been the same way lately myself.

[sepowers]

Thank you :) here lately I've been over reacting about EVERYTHING like this morning I called him like 8 times within 2 hours because I was over thinking and thought he was cheating on me even though I knew he was over at his best friends... I wish I could control everything I just hope I go back to normal

[Drew0rLeahAug2]

I don't think you should make it a big deal just as long as he doest continue to use it. Now if he does then it may affect how u feel and stress can harm the baby. I don't think weed is a bad or harmful drug like the rest. Just be glad he was real enough to let u know what he did. I think u should tell him how finding out after he has been clean for a while disappointed u. But I don't think u should make a big of a deal. At this point when we are prego us ladies need to learn how to pick our battles not only for our well being but our babies as well!