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5691681 tn?1375735348

so sad =(

Today was my birthday...and my husband hurt me beyond belief. He did not tell happy birthday, he did not hug me, he did not kiss me, he didn't even touch me. He didn't get me a present. He didn't take me out. And he wasn't even nice. My heart hurt so bad right now. I am crying so hard that I'm hyperventilating. We've been married for 5 years and together for 7 years. We have a 4 year old son, and he didn't even get him to draw me a card. This is just the absolute most hurtful thing that I have ever experienced in my life. I just want to stop crying and go to sleep, and forget this day completely. ='(
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5739386 tn?1378836460
Did he forget? Maybe when he gets in bed ask him why he's acting like that toward you today... Sorry mamas just try talkin to him
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Aww hun im so sorry but its ur day sweety don't let him ruin it u get up n go out tomorrow take ur lil man out for lunch and maybe the zoo have a good day im sorry he ruined urs
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4725879 tn?1368826572
I'm sorry this happened to you hun. No one should have to feel this way on any day, let alone your birthday. Not that it makes up for it, but.. Happy birthday! :) Just think, at the very least your little one is inside you spending what's left of your special day with you. Pretty darn great if ya ask me. Cheer up! Things will get better! All the best :)
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5038240 tn?1370648512
Awww sorry hun that this happened to you
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Gosh that's not good, sorry to hear that happened to you. Maybe once you get in to bed together he'll surprise you with some birthday penis!! If not you tell him tomorrow morning what the heck is going on?
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5691681 tn?1375735348
Thanks ladies. My birthday is over now. I've been talking about it for 3 weeks, and I told him what to get me and exactly where it was in the store. But I really didn't want a present..I just wanted him. =','( It's probably the hormones causing the excessive crying..but I don't think I'll ever get past this. I don't ever want to spend another birthday like this again. I even told him to tell him happy birthday and he just ignored me. I asked him several times if he was mad or something and he just said no. Like right now, we are laying in bed and I'm balling my eyes out, and he doesn't give a crap. I'm just so sick of this. Normally (when I'm not pregnant) I just shrug this off. But I can't now. =(
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5609181 tn?1375332372
Hahaha birthday penis :) I didn't get any birthday penis on my birthday.. But that really is terrible. And happy birthday :) I would assume he forgot if he absolutely said and did nothing so maybe when he realizes that he forgot your birthday it'll be even better than if he had remembered it!
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Wow. The same thing happened to me this year. Been together 5 years, known each other for 6. Have a 3 year old. Didnt touch me, wouldn't have sex with me, no gift, no going out. Nada. So i feel you. I was hurt to.
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5691681 tn?1375735348
Thank you for the birthday wishes. =) I'm sure I'll feel better in the morning. I'm just glad this awful birthday is over..
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5691681 tn?1375735348
Really?? I'm sorry girl =( how did you handle it? I'm so heart broken right now =(
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Happy Belated birthday!!. How about a punch in the face? Or ignore my husband tomorrow day because he deserves to realize something is wrong!?!?!? It's a shame you had to go through that!! I wouldn't be able to cope either.
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5627474 tn?1374148775
Awe honey, I'm so sorry! Id be crying too. And just like you my SO wouldn't give a crap. My man can be a heart less jerk too. Pretty bad sometimes. But I cant imagine he would ignore my birthday! Especially when you told him what you wanted and everything!
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5691681 tn?1375735348
Ugh..yeah it totally blew yesterday..but I am feeling much better today. I went shopping with bday money from my mom and bought me a new purse, panties, shirt, shorts, scarf, shoes, then my 4yr old some pants, and my soon-to-be baby girl an adorable cupcake onesie! =) Shopping definitely cures sadness.
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