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stress, stress and more stress :-(

since I have found out I was pregnant in October, I lost my house to my ex, the bank won't let me out of the mortgage, he's paid late almost every month, I'm getting my divorce finalized tomorrow, I owe a ton of money on my taxes, found out I don't get any paid time off of work to be with my baby and now my ex found out over the wkend that I'm pregnant and is blowing up my phone with death threat texts aimed at my bf who's is the baby's father and bashing me on social media. I'm going to be 30wks on wednesday and I'm so stressed I've been having kind of strong contractions and idk how to deal with all this. I don't want my baby to end up coming early because of my stress but I'm not handling it very well, idk what to do? How can I make this all stop? :-(
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Yes, death threats! He says if runs in to my bf anywhere he's going to cut his throat. Hopefully my lawyer will give me advice tomorrow when I see him. I'm trying to stay positive, but it's hard when it's like one thing after another keeps piling on....thank you so much ladies, I really appreciate the advice and support :-)
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13167 tn?1327194124
He's texting death threats?  Call the police.
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I'm so sorry. That has to be very tough. Maybe try finding some you time to go swimming read or take a walk. Personally have alot of stress as well and so I started to see a counselor. After a few sessions I was able to laugh about what is going on and move past it. Maybe look into a life coach they can help you manage your life. To get focused and take one thing at a time. You and your babies health is important Try to take care of your mental health you deserve to be happy. Good luck
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if I were you , id take deep breaths . calm myself down .. then go into a room , close the door and pray , even thou ge already knows just tell god whats goin on , tell him what you need , and ask him to protect your child from all the stress . matter a fact ask him to relieve you of all the stress . ask him to help you with the problems , asks for a blessing.  and he will answer your prayers . I myself will be praying for you . good luck mamma ♥♡
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It's bound to eat at you. Just try and stay calm and hopefully it'll turn out right for you. Just let the idiot do what he wants to do. People who know you aren't meaningful your real friends will come and ask you the truth and be there for you. And the people who font, well their not the sort of people you want round your family and baby. Keep your head up
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He's sending mass / group texts to everyone who knows me a screen shot of my baby registry showing my name and my bf name..he titled the text "****** registery" it's not limited to social media which I deactivated my account...since I'm going to court tomorrow I think im going to show my lawyer all this and see what he says...idk why I'm letting this get to me so bad but it's like eating at me!
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Pray About It. Try to relax & clear your mind NO mother needs the added stress!!!
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Couldn't even begin to imagine what you're going through or how your feeling. Have you tried going to the CAB on some advice for the legal situation? Also take your self off social media sites it's unnecessary stress for you and your baby. Also change your number if possible x
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