stress out!!

[mytwokings]

So my unborn son dad is in jail. He been in there since September 8th, I been putting money on my phone for him to call and check on me and the baby. I was ok with it at first the calls is $6 a call and $6 to put the money on so $12 a call. Now my oldest son dad is in the same jail and he calls a lot as well but my cell phone which has no money on it at all. I put $20 on his book so he can buy a calling card to call us (son is 5) but now its like I'm supporting them and I'm the one taking care of the kids I have with each of them!!! I want my five yr old to talk to his dad and I want my unborn son dad to know what's going on seeing he might not be out when his child is born. I'm just so tired now I'm working two jobs I'm seven months pregnant my birthday and son birthday coming up in two weeks. Bills and now two guys in jail Huh sooooo stress out

[kay1027]

Oh wow. This is going to be a long road but everything will work out.

[mytwokings]

My oldest son dad has 6 months and my unborn son dad I dont know they keep pushing his court day back. But he looking at 2-3 years

[kay1027]

Yeah I would want me time too. But just hang in there. How long do they have if I may ask?

[mytwokings]

Yea I'm not trying to stress I need my Lil man to be healthy and finish cooking lol. I trust them i know how man calls he can get with a calling card lol but Yea I'm not putting anymore money on my phone or books till next week! I just need me time

[kay1027]

Or what you can do is buy a few money cards. I understand they aren't cheep and I don't know your income but that's another option. If you don't trust that they will get phone cards on their own :)

[mytwokings]

Yea they can get work release. Im waiting on that information, and Yea I have a brother who did his girl like that but the different between them ans us is I know for a fact they wouldnt do me like that. I been friends with my oldest son dad for 12yrs and my unborn son dad for 4 yrs even though we not together I can call them out of anyone and I know they got me

[shaparritamedina]

Ok then that's a different story but don't stress ur self it's not healthy for ur baby in can cause u preterm labor ,and put money on ur phone only when u can

[kay1027]

I would just put $20 on their books then and that's it. Can they get work release?

[shaparritamedina]

I'm telling you bc ur in in jail all u want is to be on the phone talking to u not that i been through that but i have a brother and he will always be in jail and calling my sister in low but as soon as he gets out he will for get about his family  

[mytwokings]

Yes both of them help me when ever I needed it from house problems to car problems. They was always there for me. I actually have my oldest son dads car now he told them to give me his property so I can have away to get our son to and from school and have away to the doctor

[mytwokings]

Yea I understand and feel where you coming from. But my oldest son has to talk to his dad. He can't go a day without telling him how his day was and it helps him behave. Now as far as my unborn son dad its just he want so bad to be here for us and talking to me everyday is how he think he can be here. But its taking a toll on us!

[shaparritamedina]

Did they actually help u with money when they were out or no???bc if they never did then why do u what guys like that in ur life ur just stressing ur self and stressing ur babys cuz all that is affecting them

[kay1027]

Honestly and this is just my opinion. But I think you need to drop them. I understand you want the dad to talk to his son but he can when he gets out. And as for your bf same goes for him. Its not fair to you to work two jobs,pay your bills,pay for your children,and pay for you ex plus bf.