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6867745 tn?1398948987

Leaving my man!

Im scared if I'm hormonal or if it's a rational choice.  I just don't think they way we argue will be good for the baby . I'm scared hormones are blocking rational tthoughts like can he fight for custody and win if he earns more than me? Do I have to give my baby his last name? What if I just disappear so he will never find me or hear from me again? Someone help me!
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It's probably just your hormones. Why are you going to keep a father away from his baby? Is he that bad? Is he abusive? Is he a drunk? If not I don't see why you have to keep his child away from him.

Arguing isn't good for the baby but it could be because your hormones, and it's just arguing by the time the baby is here you both will have to move past that.
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I've been scared of the same thing cuz my bd use to threaten me when we would argue &don't say anything bad or threatening to him n tx messages! Good luck:)
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Lol u won't go to jail for kidnapping I left my baby's father moved to a different state and as soon as the baby born file child support& full custody that's what I'm doing &my baby's father makes a lot of money himself
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If your serious don't tell him when you go in labor and don't let him sign the birth certificate. If he does then you'll have 50/50 of custody
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7826987 tn?1401691041
Im not 100% sure with not being in your situation before but im pretty certain he can get you in trouble for kidnap which will leave you in a weaker situation in regards to custody.
also if you leave you dont automatically get full custody and he has the right to see his child.
make sure you are thinking straight as this is a big deal
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6628393 tn?1398789276
Dont put him on the birth certificate.
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8377023 tn?1399509160
^^^ok that makes sense
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6867745 tn?1398948987
Hes a doctor and a very persistent man. I can't stand him anymore and im scared he will  take away my baby I'm 30weeks.
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They can not press kidnapping charges on a parent unless the other has full custody
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8377023 tn?1399509160
You do not have to give your baby his last name. And he cannot win custody just because he makes more money. And I would not disappear because he could then press kidnapping charges on you. I dont mean to scare you but its the truth. Im a ftm and im trying to find a lawyer and I have been reading up on different things
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