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[swlucille]

My spouse has a porn problem and were gonna have a baby i dont like him watching it what do i do??//

[Brooklynnbby]

Have you ever tried masturbating with no Porn? It's really boring just looking at the ceiling it's not that he doesn't find you attractive he's just looking for something to watch while he gets off

[divine89]

my boyfriend watches porn all the time well at least I find it on his phone but I don't have a problem with it at all I figured every man watches porn even women I'm not sure if he watches it to get him self off tmi but if he does that's better for me also because my sex drive during this pregnancy has been up in down either way I don't see any harm in it sometimes we watch it together but if u don't like it I guess you should just let him know how you feel

[showard022]

I personally told my husband i better never find him looking. It's statically ruins your relationship in the long run. These women do things that allot of women don't and quite frankly wouldn't stimulate me. Also they are so photoshopped to looked like most women can never look. There was a study that said men who look at porn rate their significant other lower than men who dont. I feel like if it makes you uncomfortable he should care more about your feelings. Ya they slip up every once and at while but all the times noy ok. Also we have a little one already and it's hard to find time to have alone time. If you can find time for the you should find time for us. :)

[MommyMakwa00]

You honestly can't stop him and if he can look and can't touch, what's the issue?

[knufrio]

I have a friend who takes all kinds of naughty pics and stuff for her hubby and you know what? He still watches porn. Guys like porn. Its not a crime. Its irrational and immature for a woman to think that just because she's with a man that suddenly he is going to stop finding other women attractive. We women watch movies with all these sweet sensitive men, like The Notebook... Those movies are emotional porn. Men like physical porn. Your husband is still going to find out attractive no matter what. You are the woman he lives and when he looks at you he sees more than just t*ts and a** (he sees that too) but he sees the woman he can talk to about anything, the mother of his child. Even though he might not act like it he is aware that your insecure and most likely feeling down. My husband watches porn a lot more now that I'm pregnant and when we talked about it it wasn't that my body changes made me unattractive. It was the fact that I felt sick or tired all the time and he felt guilty for wanting to initiate sex with me when I felt so crappy. Talk to your man but do it in a way that's not judgmental. He's not out strolling the streets for other women, he's simply getting a quick release watching a fictional sexual scenario.

[hopeandlittleone]

I give my bf dirty pics of me so he won't need porn easy fix for us both lol

[Kassidy1012]

My man also watches porn but hides it from me. I don't like him watching it because we are not allowed to have sex because my cervix is opening. Why can't he wait for me?? I have to wait. So should he.

[squidbabeh]

I don't like my boyfriend watching it. It makes me feel ugly. I know that all men do it and rationally it doesn't matter, but when I find out that he has been watching it, I get really insecure. :/ but I think a big part of that is hormonal.

[LucyMarie1991]

Watching porn and jacking off is completely different to thinking about being with another woman. Those two things aren't even related at all.
Most men do watch porn. And the ones who say they don't are lying.
I would rather my partner admitted to watching porn than lie about it. I know he does it. Watch it together and try something new. He isn't going to watch it when he has the baby with him. He's jerking off, he isn't a pervert or anything.

[laurenmichelle0425]

When I was younger....I cared for some reason that my guy was watching it too. As I got older...I realized that, not only did I not mind, but turning it on while we did it made it even better. I wouldn't worry. He will find a way to watch it with our without you knowing.

[Mreeah]

Its really not "okay" if she doesnt like it. You dont have to put up with that crap if you dont want to! Seriously just because some guys watch porn doesnt mean they have to and she just has to sit around and not agree with it. Also if he has thoughts about being with other women and the best way is to watch porn then this is not a man i would want to be with.

[l0vemary]

I dont see the problem with watching porn honestly. All men do it. Id rather him watch porn then cheat ! Porn is honestly nothing! I say you should let him slide and watch it with him.

[mommy2010d]

Yeah i agree with the other ladies! The reason why i asked if he hides it from you is because my man will watch it and i ask him he will tell me the truth and he mostly watches it when he is working out of town. But watching it with him is a good idea just make sure its somthing you are bith into and you will enjoy it. And it dies give you new ideas lol. But i dont think he would watch in front of the baby.

[Mreeah]

Its true that SOME guys and gals watch porn. Talk to him! If you have a problem with it then tell him! honestly he should take your feelings into consideration.

[Sheba27]

My husband and I often watch together. We don't intend on letting baby watch but sex is a fact of life and we do plan to educate our children about all the different sides of the issue. I'd rather he watch than try to participate with someone else. It's also given us some ideas for new positions.

[knufrio]

Guys watch porn, almost every man does it. I say just let it go. As long as he still pays attention to you I don't see the problem in watching porn every now and them.

[mommy2010d]

Does he watch it with you or just by himself? If he does it by himself does he hide from you?