Hi!
It is very likely that you are not ovulating regularly. This may or may not be a consequence of your eating disorder. The one can certainly cause the other, but the other can happen even without the first--if you follow me!
I have had good luck with Femara. You could take a progesterone to induce a period, but what you really want is something to induce ovulation, and I have had better luck with Femara than with Clomid which is the old standard therapy.
You should have your thyroid and prolactin levels tested too if you haven't already.
You certainly haven't ruined your chances forever! How did your eating disorder fare while you were pregnant? Some people have a really hard time with the weight gain, but most of my patients have done very well.
You probably don't have to tell your doctor about your ED, just tell him you're not having periods, but if you did tell him, I'll bet he'd be understanding--give him some credit!
Good luck!
Hope it all works out!
Dr B
thanks dr brown- it makes me feel more confident. I did very well with my ed during my first pregnancy. however i quickly relapsed postpartum- thats why i am worrying so much now if i permanently screwed things up with being able to conceive again. I will talk to my doctor as soon as i can thank you!!