upset! :(

[beki21]

so i dont even kno where to start. first its my due date and they think baby is breech :( but i wont kno for sure till tuesday. second iv had a stupid chest infection for over a month and feel rubbish and to top it off my mil decided to start making me feel guilty coz i dont want her there at birth. she was crying saying i dont kno what iv done to deserve this! i just dont need this ******** atm. why is this all happening now? i was so excited for this time to come and now i feel like giving up!

[meatball90]

Exactly... some mils think its there right to be involved with everything... wel it really isnt.. im lucky my mil isnt like that at all. You keep that foot down :) shel just have to get over it. i mean if your mother isnt invited then why on earth does she think shel be in there... silly.. :/

[beki21]

thats exactly how i feel!! well iv put my foot down and waiting room she shall stay lol. some ppl are so selfish. y cant she just except its mine and partners baby and our experience. grrrr i hate inlaws!!

[meatball90]

Oh god i couldnt imagine having anyone other than my bf/bd at the birth... eew not to mention my mil... ive never even wanted my own mothet there... i think its a special moment for the parents and should only be between them.. unless the dads not involved then whoever the birth partner is... but mil's should stay at home or the waiting room... hope you feel better and baby comes out head 1st haha.. xx