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is my bf pregnant or am I?

Ever since I've been pregnant and specially lately since I've been in my second trimester (I'm 22+4) my fiance has been extremely moody and sensitive.  I can't say ANYTHING to him. Last night it was late and we had just ate and had to clean the kitchen so all I said is do you think you can clean off the stove top.. I cant do everything by myself and he started a huge argument saying how rude I was and how unnecessary some of the things I say are.. and today I was talking to him bout me possibly going into preterm labor BC I am at risk due to certain conditions and how he should of maybe told his mom not to have my baby shower so late and he immediately got defensive BC I thought I heard him say not to have it earlier in case something happened.. it was a mistake I made.  He just got so angry saying that he told her not to push it back and w.e.  idk its just for really dumb stuff and I'm the one that's pregnant.. yet he is always getting angry and starting fights.  It really makes me wonder sometimes... Also if I say I want to do something with the baby and he doesn't agree its a huge fight.. I also wanted my mom to be in the delivery room and he fought me about that so now its just going to be me and him... its like if his mother isn't involved mine can't be either.. I'm so sick of him asking his mother every single thing that we should get and do with our child and I'm sick of him always being worried that her feelings are going to be hurt BC I want my mom to do something with me and not her!! I'm sorry I just need to vent I'm so frustrated.
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I know what you mean!! I'm tired all the time!! And mine is very supportive as well... just so moody lately!! I hope it goes away when baby is here! Lol
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Better* sorry text suck
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Aweeee that's so frustrating Hun ... MEN! Sometimes I wonder if they aren't pregnant with us or just don't understand hat we currently going through. Our bodies and hormones goes through so much and then they do this . My hubby moans because I ale afternoon naps; u work half days only and I just can't keep my eyes open . I always cook chefs taste for him and he says looks like I'm becoming lazy. Say what???? So yea I do hope they can have a enter understanding of hat we going trough. By all means his very supportive but sometimes sigh
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