See that's what I'm saying. I don't mind kids at all.. you know as long as the parents watch them, which my sister in law and his sister does. So Ima just say they can come and tough jerky if his sister doesn't like it. They're well behaved, the only thing I see might happen is my baby niece tryin to help me open gifts but idc if she does.
You need to decide what you want, kid friendly or not :) Tell her what you want and that's how it's going to be. No need for her to stress you on silly things like that! Hope you have a great shower!
No its your babyshower and you are allowed to hVe whoever you want. If she doesn't like it, then she doesn't have to plan it. The babyshower is for you, not her so she has no say in who comes or doesn't regardless if she is the planner.
Its your baby shower you decide who goes. If she has a problem them tell her tough titty
If its YOUR family, and YOUR shower, you should have a say on who you want there.