Aa
what do I do?!?
Theres this costumer at my work and she is just a real *****. If I am working she will request me to wait on her, and if I take too long to give her coffee shell make comments like "oh u need real waitresses here" stuff like that, so anyways she does talk to me and tries to know about my life and pregnancy (she never had kids) she requested me on facebook and always has a comment for my statuses the one comment was "you r number one, not ur baby" I was like ughh I deleted the comment she invited herself to my baby shower so I didnt want to be rude and gave.her an invitation...and honestly I was thinkin about her and I dont want her at my babyshower at all! And I dont know how to tell her, I want to delete her off facebook but I dont want her to cause drama at my work...like I just dont want her to know anything about me and my baby she is so negative idk how to say something without offending her!
There are two ways you can look at this situation:
She is either a stalker and/or crazy lady who feeds off of everyone else's pain or by degrading them. And if so, you need to get this woman out of your life. Explain to her that her presence is toxic to your health and in turn has added unnecessary stress within your pregnancy. There is a thing called a restraining order.
OR
You kinda like this girl and wanna be her friend. BUT you are a push over (No Offense!) and you need to stand up for yourself.
I worked as waitress for 6 years and I NEVER got that close or personal with any of my customers. Much less let them harass or make derogatory comments to me. Be strong girlie and stand up for yourself and your baby. You deserve to be respected!
She is either a stalker and/or crazy lady who feeds off of everyone else's pain or by degrading them. And if so, you need to get this woman out of your life. Explain to her that her presence is toxic to your health and in turn has added unnecessary stress within your pregnancy. There is a thing called a restraining order.
OR
You kinda like this girl and wanna be her friend. BUT you are a push over (No Offense!) and you need to stand up for yourself.
I worked as waitress for 6 years and I NEVER got that close or personal with any of my customers. Much less let them harass or make derogatory comments to me. Be strong girlie and stand up for yourself and your baby. You deserve to be respected!
Shes a customer? Id talk to ur boss and let them know the situation then delete her whatever u need to do because she is basically stalking and harassing u. And talk to her let her know ur glad to be her server but ud like to keep ur work and personal life separate
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