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what's the best thing I should do?
I've been looking for places to live before I told my mom I'm pregnant and I'm 19 pregnant with my second so ik she's gonna b verrrrrrryyyyyy mad. And talk about me with her boyfriend and family. Since its very hard to find a place right now I gotta live with my bd and his mom and aunt. Until me and him get a place I can move there at anytime but idk when I'm gonna move there probably next week since I got an appointment at the hospital that's down the street From where I live to get an ultrasound. Idk if I should wait that day when u get it done to tell my mom but I'm already stressed about a lot of stuff I'm not sure if I wanna tell her to her face or text her and tell her ik she'll b mad but it's my life.
You are welcome girl!i just can't stand to see people say that kind of crap on here,it's ridiculous.a new life is a blessing.tubbs nor your family should even consider mentioning abortion.good luck and God bless honey.everything will work itself out:)
Yeah ur right I'm gonna have to talk to her I need to stop acting like nothing is wrong when there is something going on.
My mom thinks it young. Her mother passed away when I was 13 so maybe it's kind of good that she'll have grandchildren at her age to watch them grow. I might b 19 but I'll do anything for my kids to have a good life that's y I'm in college and my major is sonography. And they get paid good
45 isn't to young to be a grandma. My Mom is 38, and is thrilled that she about to be a grandma, my grandma is 55 and is excited for her great grandson to be born this month.
Tubbs that was beyond uncalled for..way to call someone out behind a call someone out behind a computer/phone screen.you're talking about her being immature,people who talk to others the way you just did are the immature ones.you can state your opinion on this site but you also have to be respectful of others.
Tubbs that was beyond uncalled for..way to call someone out behind a call someone out behind a computer/phone screen.you're talking about her being immature,people who talk to others the way you just did are the immature ones.you can state your opinion on this site but you also have to be respectful of others.
And another when u said about my school check that's money I need for school or anything I need or my son need yeah my.mom got mad because her *** didn't want to work and wanted me and my sister's Money every time she quit her job for no reason u don't know me so don't ****** judge me everyone makes mistakes u sound so stupid. Damn
Don't comment on my stuff no more cause ursstupid af and don't know wtf ur talking about my kids won't even b close in age y know how many ppl that have two kids or even more by my age I was just asking what should I do to tell my mom. U dumb *****
I have a lot of support from my bds family. If Iwwasn't mature enough I wouldn't give a **** about going to school and making things better for me and my son
@tubbsmcgee for one shut tf up u don't even ****** know me I can take care of my first child tf I'm in college doing everything I can to have a better life for my son so idgaf what the hell u gotta say how bout u get an abortion and sit ur *** down and shut the hell up get tf outta here
Dont need her in your life. I learned that lesson fast. Lol. *sorry my phone cut my last comment off.
When I told my mom I was pregnant with my 1st she said "good luck with that" I was a week away from turning 19.. eventually she came around and started getting excited saying "our baby" all the time and I would get so annoyed, when my daughter was born she tried to take over and I had to tell her to back off. when I got pregnant with my second she told me how dumb I was and blah blah blah.. I didnt even live with her at all so it was really none if her business when he was born she treated him like crap because I didnt let her in the delivery room so she said she didnt have that special bond with him. With my 3rd I didn't even tell her til I was almost 30 weeks, I never seen her so it wasnt hard to hide and my son barely got to know her I stopped talking to her in September 2 weeks before I found out I was pregnant with this baby girl and im now having a baby in 6 days that she knows nothing about and my life is so much less stressful without her..she keeps trying to get her friend to contact me to let her see my kids but I refuse I dont need that in my life.. my point is if she cant be supportive of you, you
You're only 19 and already pregnant with your second? You don't sound mature enough to raise another baby. If I were your mom, I'd suggest you get an abortion.think about the lacklustre life that poor child will have. It doesn't sound like you can even support your first born! It's kids like you that are ruining society.
Do the WORLD a favour and get an abortion.
Do the WORLD a favour and get an abortion.
Her advice would b u should get an abortion just like the first time I was pregnant she was trying to force me to get one and her bf was like u gotta do whatever ur mom tells u I said I don't have to do nothing if I don't want to do it. I'll move out my mom's for now because ik how she is and I don't got that Shi!t to do. She's gonna judge me and I'm gonna hear her talking about me with her dude if she got mad and had a fit about me not giving her money out my school check then it's gonna b. EoWorst telling her this
Tell your mom let it sink in. She may be worried for you but she loves you. I would tell her your pregnant and then tell her your plan about what you and bd ate going to do so she feels good about it. Don't just move out and say I'm pregnant in one swoop. She may have some good advice for you that is hard to hear
My bd grandparents r happy about his mom wasn't she wanted me to get an abortion but she doesn't care if we keep the baby now
Thank u when I had my son the first time she was trying to hurry me up in the house for the next neighbor wouldn't know I had a baby.
And I'll b 13 weeks tomorrow
And I'll b 13 weeks tomorrow
My Nan is 57 and will be a great-gran this year. She had my mum at 18, then my mum had me at 16. I'm 23 having my first. The way I see it is your children actually get to have a relationship with their grandparents.
My partners parents are in their late 60s, so chances are they won't see my daughter grow up and get married. But I want them to have as much time with her as they can. If I had waited to have children any longer they would have been in their 70s. Your mum is being selfish by saying she is unhappy because she's 'too young to be a Nan' andthat she ddoesn't want people talking about her daughter being pregnant. She should stop wordymy about what people think and stand up for you and tell them how proud she is of the woman you have grown up to become
My partners parents are in their late 60s, so chances are they won't see my daughter grow up and get married. But I want them to have as much time with her as they can. If I had waited to have children any longer they would have been in their 70s. Your mum is being selfish by saying she is unhappy because she's 'too young to be a Nan' andthat she ddoesn't want people talking about her daughter being pregnant. She should stop wordymy about what people think and stand up for you and tell them how proud she is of the woman you have grown up to become
She needs to get over it. Nothing u can do now. How far are u? What's ur bd family think
Thanks. I'll let her know. She doesn't want to b a grandma because she's45, and she thinks that is too young to b one and ik she don't want no one to judge her because she has a daughter that has a kid at a young age
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