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why am i not concieveing???

im 28 and i have had 5 babys 4 of which were premature(but all fit and healthy now) i also had a termination due to problems in 2009 which i had problems after i have not fallen pregnant since then and i have no idea why me and my now husband have been trying for a yr and a bit yet still nothing ive used ovulation sticks and everything yet still we dont fall pregnant i have been to the doc and they have clearly stated that even if i cant have kids then they would not help us as i already have 5 kids yet my partner dont and i find that unfair...anyways i was due on the 22nd on nov but out of the blue came on the 19th which wasnt even enough to fill a pad(sorry tmi) it just suddenly stopped on the 21st then nothing on the 22nd and 23rd then on the 24th after sexual intercourse with my husband i started to bleed which then only lasted half hour max then nothing its baffling me as to what could be going on im due on again on the 17th dec going from when i came on in nov im normally every 28-30 days bleed for 5-7 days but i THINK im getting some symptoms but i dunno i havent gotten ill for 2 yrs yet i seem to have caught a bad cold i have been having pains in my lower back and tummy one of my nipples keeps randomly hurting for no reason and i cant stand chocolate anymore???? im so confused any suggestions would be helpful thanks xxx
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1806883 tn?1458321004
You should take a test, I dont understand why the doctors wont help you, gee I'm 44 and have 10 children and have just had a miscarriage, but all the doctors I have seen dont say anything like that to me, and if they're not sure about something they pass me on to some one who can help. You can have as many children as you like and its not up to anyone else to say if you have had enough, and I understand the wanting to have a child with your husband, doing this will bind all of you together and it doesnt mean he will love your others any less either, do the test, use first morning wee and good luck :)
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well my body is letting me have the odd fag but i think im out again this month just call it gut feeling but hey another month of plenty of nookie is always good lol x
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1806883 tn?1458321004
well hopefully this is a good sign, make you give up :) if your going off certain things then hopefully you wont have to wait much longer,  maybe test when your period is due in a weeks time if you can hold out that long lol
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well im 7 days away from my af and now i cant smoke a fag as i keep being physically sick what is all that about??? i still have a cold i cant seem to get over it arghhhhhh all this is soooo frustrating xxx
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1806883 tn?1458321004
If your not pregnant this time, try keep charting your ovulation with the strips, you can buy them in bulk thru ebay to keep the costs down, it can be very frustrating after being able to fall pregnant easily,  to then all of a sudden have to try, but it will all be worth it when you do finally become pregnant, if your periods are not regular, you could give vitex a go, if not keep plugging away and hopefully it wont be too long now :)
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to morrisfamily2012= my husband is a great dad to my 5 kids but hes has always wanted one of his own it would be very unfair of me not to give him that after him taking on my 5 and rasing them as his own?
to lovemykids=i have taken 4 tests first one on the 22nd of last month and then for a few days after and all neg.
stacey10......Thankyou for your kind words its so true it would be the icing on the cake for us we recently got married on the 23rd sept and now a baby would be perfect its so frustrating as ive never had trouble falling yet now i seem to arghhhhhh! lol xxx
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1911870 tn?1345419009
Your husbend should just love and raise your kids as his own. 6 kids is a whole lotta responibility.
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1712422 tn?1443337501
Have you taken a pregnancy test?
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