Thank you for your prompt response. I did indeed have a serious discussion with my urologist, first on Jan 2nd by phone and again in his office on Jan 5th. The cancer appears to be contained with the caveat that one lymph node may be affected. The bottom line is choosing the course of treatment or not. The option offered to me was radical prostatectomy (RP) with follow up radiation and continued follow up tests. I said I would make a decision within 2 weeks. When I left his office my leaning was to go ahead. Since then I continued my lengthly research on the subject and have come to the conclusion that (RP) has a lot of drawbacks with respect to quality of life. It was that approach I focused my research. Radiation therapy seems to be little better in that area. I also have talked to a few men that have actually had (RP) and I confess I did not get any encouragement there either. One report that has all but convinced me is a study, reported by the New England Journal of Medicine (NEJM) entitled "Quality of Life After Radical Prostatectomy or Watchful Waiting" Volume 347:790-796, September 12,2002 Number 11
http://content.nejm.org/cgi/content/full/347/11/790
The entire article can be summed up in the last 2 paragraphs.
"Erectile dysfunction and urinary leakage are important sources of decreased well-being after radical prostatectomy, whereas obstructed voiding is an important source after watchful waiting. The distress induced by a specific symptom varies considerably among patients. Moreover, some men give full priority to survival — even when the gain is small — whereas others want to avoid therapy-induced distressful symptoms, even when faced with certain decreased prospects of survival.
For all these reasons, we cannot say that radical prostatectomy is better than watchful waiting for all men with localized prostate cancer. These alternatives are associated with complex and incommensurable outcomes, and each man must judge for himself which treatment is preferable."
There are several guiding factors in my decision making and key among them are: 1) I'm 69 and have lived a full life, 2) Married to the same woman for 50 years, 3) I remain active in my life. There are others, not the least of which is my faith in God, and I have often said many times in my life that when my life is over it will be His decision. My wife and children support me in my decision, so barring any last minute event to the contrary I likely will opt for a watch and wait.
Life is very short and gets shorter by the minute and is also full of risks, cancer being only one. I would like to think my decision is right for me, at this time. If I were 10-15 years younger I might be inclined to think quite differently though.
You were very kind to respond I felt I owe you the professional courtesy of a reply. Thank you very much once again.
After having the prostate biopsy, you do indeed have biopsy-proven prostate cancer. Now you need to think about treatment options. If the prostate cancer has spread to other organ systems (bone, lymphatics) then having a prostatectomy is not the best option. Instead hormonal treatment may be employed. If the cancer is confined to the prostate then having your prostate removed or radiation therapy may be the best option, but you need to have a serious discussion with your urologist after all the tests have been completed. I wish you the best.