Does Pornography wreck Sexual life?

[Wnyek]

Hi Dr.Jennice Epp,
Many people are obsessed of seeing xxx for to sexual stimulation or getting sexually over charge, and sometimes have to mastubate, mostly are the--married persons so as to they are fed up with the oneness, one style, one face, one body every time is the same, just as there been an obligation to have intercourse with the same partner, the question is that is this mood harmfull for sexual or general health.
KINDLY SUGGEST!!!!!!!!!!

[Richard Pomerance, Ph.D]

Dear Wnyek,

Pornography can either enhance sexual life, or destroy it, depending on whether it is used as a “spice” or the main course. People can get away from their mates with pornography, and disappear into it. That is bad. If this is the case, I recommend you see a counselor to figure out why this is happening. We now know that sometimes addiction to pornography, as with other addictions such as gambling or risk-taking, occurs because the brain simply becomes accommodated to the continuing pleasure reward. It could also involve perceived inadequacies of your particular relationship.

As to sucking sexual organs: I know of no reason that it is harmful, assuming it is physically limited and that usual cleanliness and other precautions are taken.

For more, please contact the Sexuality forum here on Medhelp.


Sincerely,

Dr. P.

[Sherylyn]

I would say it depends.. I knwo with my bf and i for us to spice it up a bit we will watch porn  and it can make your sexual intercourse amazing it depends thou... if its too much then icould see it wrecking it..

Like what exactly do you mean?

[Wnyek]

A related discussion, Partner does't cooperate to have intercourse! was started.

[Wnyek]

Dear Richard Pomerance, Ph.D -,

Thanking you for the reply, acctually I am obsessed badly with pornography, I feel guilty after seeing the porns or vids, I am a kind of man that I bore with similarity, my partner doesn't as I want, I think I want extereme sex for me to satisfy; regarding this pornography, kindly let me know does this habit wreck my sexual life or health? kindly let know too,-- sucking the sexual organs during sex is harmful or normal.

Thanking you.
Wnyek.

[Richard Pomerance, Ph.D]

Dear Wynek,

Please clarify what you're asking, and I will try to answer. Your question/situation as stated is a bit hard to understand.

Sincerely,

Dr. P.

[Wnyek]

Thank you dear Dr. P,

Yes you can answer the same question!

Thanks

[Richard Pomerance, Ph.D]

Dear Wynek,

Dr. Epp runs the sexuality expert forum. This is the relationship decision expert forum. Please let me know if you also have a question for me.

Sincerely,

Dr. P.