What You see is what You get - that's what Red Flags are for - we should heed them
"the best indicator of future behavior is past behavior" - I forget who said that but wise words, indeed
Yes, is this just an example of what happens frequently or is this a one time thing?
He was kind of rude. I'm not sure how he missed you saying that I'm running late from work AND the weather is terrible so I'm really late . . . should we meet at home. Can you show him your text where you say that and he says no?
anyway, it also is unfair that he can throw anything he feels is your fault in your face but trying to resolve this negative experience with him isn't allowed.
If this is his usual pattern, he has much work to do to become a good communicator and partner. And if he doesn't work on it actively acknowledging the problem . . . then this relationship won't ever be happy.
If it was a one time thing . . . we all have bad nights. :>) good luck
How long have you two been together and how old are you two?
Sounds like it's time to call it quits in my opinion especially if he has these unresolved anger; control issues.
Is this happening often or occasionally?