I love my husband more than life itself, I can't imagine a world without him, and unfortunately he has Chronic Pancreatitis. His CP causes awful, painful nights and even days, so I stand by his side and aid him. He doesn't usually say when he's not feeling good, because truly I think it's all the time, but he has better days then some. I love being intimate with him, sometimes I miss it and sometimes I know I need to tend to his needs more than worry about sex. Should I discuss with him that we set up a plan or schedule, or that he tells me when he's feeling up for it? When we are being intimate, I know I should be careful with him but HOW??? What can I do that will please him without hurting him? Let it be noted that whatever happens I will always be there for him, in sickness and in health, until death do us part!