Thanks for your input. I'll keep what you said in mind. : )
Relationships usually grow. Going from 0 to 10 is often not a good sign of things to come as things will often peter out when they get hot and heavy so fast.
So, he is enjoying your company but may not be ready for boyfriend and girlfriend status with the communication that goes with that. I'd give it some more time and enjoy time together, get to know one another more, build a history. See what happens. As you get more serious, communication will probably increase. If you never get close naturally in that way, then he's a casual dude and not interested in the next level of commitment. But you aren't there yet. Let it build slowly and hopefully things will progress in a positive way. good luck