Ok....like the song said, "Guilty feet have got no rythm". That is what happens when you think you can have your cake and eat it too with 2 girls. You are overly confident that A will not leave you, because she loves you too much, well, you don't know women too well and hell has no fury as a scorned woman. Be vary careful that your overly confident opinion of these too women will not back firing on you.
If you truly loved "A", you would have appreciated and respected her, not take advantage that you know she will not leave you, because she loves you too much (that seems very arrogant of you). Never take advantage of a woman just because she has show you emotions and are emotions of love.
If "B" is pregnant, it is because you took a risk and this is the price you pay for unprotected sex. If she is pregnant you must do the right thing and for once in a relationship, be responsible (which, you have not shown in your relationship with the woman you realized you loved "A"). You love her now, because you are scared of the choice you made and finally realizing that she will leave you. The only thing to do at this point is wait and see if B is pregrant, if she is and decides to keep the baby, make sure to have a DNA test to prove it is yours.
I hope this experience will teach you that you should never play with peoples emotions and when being unfaithful, someone is going to lose and be hurt by your actions. Be very careful that the person that will get hurt, might be you....good luck. Judy
Thanks for replying. I really appreciate it. I am in Europe and still awake...:(
I am not an arrogant person. Maybe the way I expressed myself was a bit direct and dry. I wanted to summarise all the info as much as i can and put the facts on the table. Perhaps it wasn't the best thing to call girls A and B
I did use condoms when sleeping with B. Still I believe I made a great mistake. I'm not a player, i've just slept with two girls in my whole life. I'm young, recently graduated from uni. Whatever happens I will do the right thing...
Thanks once again for your comments...
Hi SpaCat. It's 7:54 pm (Chicago time USA). I visited Paris and Lourdes, France this past August. Beautiful country and I hope to visit Israel soon. You are still young and as human we all make mistakes and I apologize that I am pretty straight forward at times, but harmless. I'm happy to hear that whatever happends you will do the right thing and if "B" is not pregnant, I hope you will try to work things out with "A" and be faithful. You are still young and have alot ahead of you. Seek stability in life and a career and everything else will fall in to place. Good Luck, Judy
If there is nothing more between the accidental conception of a child, a long term relationship will not work, no matter what the best intentions are. Hopefully, the feared event will not have happened and all will be well. You may be young but you know right from wrong. For all you know, the gal A, has already founds someone else also? Long term relationships rarely work longterm either. Best of luck.