Does this make me a insecure person???

[bubbletea123]

I finally met the man I've always wanted.. We have been dating for 3 months now. We tell each other we love one another. I truely do love him.. I can't stand being away from him.. I have never ever felt this way towards any man.. I have had my share of men in my life.. Here's the thing.. I don't think he loves me, I feel he says it cause I say it.. I've even asked him what he loves about me, his response is I'm fun, easygoing and something else just can't remember.. I found that odd that he would say those few words.. I'm very jealous of him talking to  other women friends.. This drives me nuts. Why do I feel unloved with him??? I Mean he does give me kisses and sits beside me when watching movies.. Am I being silly with these thoughts?? Maybe I'm just a insecure Person??? I need some advise.. I don't want to feel this way. What are your thoughts???

[cutipup100]

agreed everything comes with time! wait it out.

[KensleysMom]

In 3 months a person could still be hiding alot.

[bubbletea123]

:) I will. Thank you.

[TTinKKerBBell]

I totally agree with SpecialMom - word for word.

You know who/what "You've always wanted" in a Man but You cannot know in 3 months if He IS that man.  He may be, and I hope He is, but it takes more than 3 months to KNOW that.

Relax, Enjoy One Another and Time Will Tell.

[bubbletea123]

Thank you so much.. You nailed that one right on. I do need to step back a bit.. He is consuming ever bit of me in all those aspects.. I can't thank you enough.

[nursegirl6572]

Amazing answer SM!!!

[specialmom]

Hi there.  Well, sometimes we put the cart before the horse.  It's hard to have 'love' in three months in my opinion. . . the kind of love that is on a very deep level.  You hear stories of it but I think it is much rarer than it appears.  We are deep in infatuation at 3 months.  

the key is building a foundation that leads to deep love.  That includes keeping your own life in tact.  Enjoy your friends outside of him, your hobbies, your work, your famiily, etc.  He shouldn't be your 'everything'.  

I think sometimes people can feel stifled by being someone's 'everything' so early on in dating.  

this is new.  I'd relax and let it develop naturally rather than force it along by asking him questions and wanting deeper responses.  He's basically getting to know WHAt he loves about you right now.  All he knows is that there is enough there that he wants to keep things going and see if it leads to more.  

So relax and enjoy the ride without losing yourself in the process.  good luck

[bubbletea123]

Thank you for your thoughts:) just what I needed.. Also encouraging.

[BluCrystal]

First of all, you cannot love some one else properly without loving yourself first.  Hold your chin up high, and be a proud example of what a woman should be.  If you do this with success, then jealousy becomes unnecessary, since you will know inside yourself that you are his.  He WILL have female freinds, just as you will have male friends.  That is okay as long as you maintain trust between you and never give one another any reason to doubt your faithfulness.  I hope this helps -Blu

[Life360_Dave]

Hi and welcome. As you know men are often times are less in speaking feelings than women. But here the thing,  men can show love without saying things. Other than words, men will show "knock me to my knees" love by actions and if his actions are not showing it, then perhaps your correct in your sensing.