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Don't know what to do

My Fiance is obessed with oral sex and I really hate doing it but I do it to make him happy but he wants it to much and its driving me nuts due to the fact that I truly hate doing it and he knows I do but he still wants it constantly. Do I continue to do it to make him happy or do I tell him he needs to find a new obession because I can't take doing it all the time maybe once or twice a month is good.
Need some advice thanks in advance!
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177641 tn?1189755837
If he's not respecting your wishes, then he's not right for you. It may seem bad now, but over time that may extend to other more important things (what about your feelings in other aspects of your relationship?). His needs can't always come before your own. And you certainly deserve to be with someone who cares enough about you to make sure you are comfortable during these intimate acts.
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if he cared about you, he would respect the fact that you are uncomfortable with this act. if he can't respect your feelings, then he's not worth it in the long run.
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13167 tn?1327194124
Why do you need to be told how to do this?

He's not a match.  The dating relationship is to determine if you are compatible.  

You're so young.  Give yourself a chance to find a man you're compatable with.  This man,  he sounds like he's not it.  

Do whatever you want,  actually.  If you want to be giving blow jobs several times a week for the rest of your life,  go for it!!
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