This has happened to many people, and it always will. try to let yourself heal, and try to put this behind you, try and work on yoor self estemm,, also next time you start to date take it slow, and let him court you, so to speak, and then after a time you will know when it is the right one or not, dont jump into sex fast, slow it down, and just have a good time before things get serious lots luck jo
dont think about this so hard. he sounds like a jerk looking for a reason to break up w/ you anyway. lots of guys do this. dont ever pay this much attention to a guy again. they are not worth it. despite how he as succeded in making you feel right now, you must decide that YOU are the prize. dont ever ever ever let a man bring you down and your best defense is to not put yourself in the position for them to get this far into your head or heart w/out first establishing long term w/ you real infatuation, commitment, and eternal love from their side
Honestly, it sounds like he was looking for excuses to end the relationship - whether those excuses were valid or not. So try not to take his criticisms (and rejection) fully to heart. A lot of young guys aren't ready for a real and mature relationship, which is unfortunate because most girls are ready by the time they're 20. It takes guys a few more years to mature... which can result in a lot of heartbreak on the way.
You may feel that you can't trust anyone again, but without trust you can't form intimacy. Learn to trust in little shares at a time, and in many people. Try to avoid putting all your hopes in trusting one person with 100%. Eventually you will meet someone that you'll want to trust 100% and marry, but until then, keep faith in yourself and maintain friendships with other people so that you're not alone. There are wonderful trustworthy people out there, and they're not represented by one guy who was too cowardly to talk to you about breaking up in person.
All breakups happen for a reason. Take remar's advice - give yourself time to heal. Then look back and critically think about the reasons why this relationship ended the way it did. Learn from old mistakes so that you know what to avoid in the future. Trust and love will come again, but it will take time to pick yourself up and move forward. Good luck!
give yourself time to heal first of all. and don't give up on love , your still young and you have your whole life ahead of you. things happen for a reason sometimes, maybe he was'nt the one you were meant to be with. your feelings are very real and understandable. believe or not, you will get over this and decide to move on. take care. remar