Hello, i am a 19 year old student. During my first month at uni i started going out with a girl and we have now been going out for roughly 9 months now.
I lost my virginity to her november last year... and i never seem to last long at all. We must of had sex coming on to 30 times now, i guess, and each time i dont last any more than an average of 3 mins.
The only time where i can last a bit longer is when ive had a few beers.. which would suggest to me that its to do with a psychological problem, maybe?
Ive tried reading up on the internet about this... they have listed techniques for me to try, ive tried a few but im either not doing them right... or they dont work.
All i know is that its getting really frustrating for me. I desperately want to last longer for my girlfriend.
I know that i dont really compare to the other guys shes 'got' with. Shes cheated on her boyfriends before and i dont want it happening again... i dont want her to go and seek the services of another man just because i dont satisfy her enough.
Allas to my question if you havent guessed what its going to be by now...
...what is ohms law?
Just kidding :)
Here it is:
How can i last longer during sex without the aid of alcohol?
Does masturbation help or is it a hindrance? (several mixed views scattered about on the internet, not sure which is true)
Thanks in advance :)