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2026614 tn?1332215626

FAMILY!!

I KNOW DIS IS NOT A PREGNANCY QUESTION.
BUT I WANT TO KNOW WHY DOES MY SISTER HATE ME SO MUCH.
SHE 24 YEARS OLD WITH SIX KIDS.&NOW THAT IM PREGO SHE LIKE DONT WANT TO TALK TO ME ALOT.
LIKE ONE WEEK AGO WE HAVE A PRATY FOR MY LIL SISTER MY WHOLE FAMILY WAS HERE&WE WERE TALKING ABOUT WHAT THEY WANTED ME TO HAVE A BOY&GIRL WELL I WAS IN THE ROOM THEN I COME OUT AND MY SISTER WAS LIKE ITS GOING TO BE A BOY.
&I SAID WELL I THINK ITS GOING TO BE A GIRL&SHE GOT ALL MAD SHE ROLLED HER EYES AT ME.LIKE (WTF)!BUT OKAY..SHE JUST HAS ONE GIRL AND 5 BOYS.IM NOT SURE IF SHE MAD IF COMES OUT THAT IM HAVING A GIRL.
ITS JUST KRAZY.I DONT KNOW IF SHE JUST JEALOUSY OF ME OR WHAT.BUT ITS JUST THAT LIKE WHEN I GO SHOPING.THE NEXT DAY SHE GO AND BUYS CLOTHES WHERE I WANT TO BUY MY CLOTHES.AND THAT MY ONLY OLDER SISTER.
AND LIKE TWO DAYS AGO I TOLD MY MOM THAT I WAS GONNA GO BUY SOME SHOES OF NIKES&JORDAN.NEXT THING I KNOW SHE WANT TO GO BUY SOME TOO!!

KAN SOMEONE HELP ME?
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Avatar universal
Why don't you just ask her what's wrong?  Perhaps she has concerns for you being ONLY 17 and pregnant.  

Talk to her and see what she says.  

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Hm.  Yes, I'm sure some in your family are a bit concerned and let me just say, don't buy any shoes now!  Ha.  my feet grew from pregnancy and I can't wear any shoes prior to having my first son and that stinks.  I had some awesome shoes and boots.  Anyway, that is beside the point.  

Gosh, not on topic but what is the plan for caring for this baby??  She may be thinking about all the responsibility of it and not think you have much of an idea as to what it will be like.  I don't know,

But, it definately sounds like you have sibling rivalry.  I would not be bothered if my sister wanted to buy shoes like I had or clothes where I like to shop.  Nope, I'm not competitive with her so, who cares??  I'd try to care less about these little things in the big picture of life.  

If she is being rude, she may be adjusting to not being the only one with kids and having to share attention.  That is her issue and she'll get over it.  

Or she could be mad at you and you should just ask her in order to resolve it like Londres says.  

but, some of this is you being concerned with what SHE is doing as well.  Live your life.  Don't worry if she copies you.  Why does it really matter?  And now you'll have a child to care for and all things will change for you dramatically.  Welcome to the real world in which any clothes you have on might have baby spit up on them.  good luck
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Avatar universal
Talk to her! Habla con ella!, if she is jelaous of you , you need to talk to her, maybe she is just worried, you guys are sisters!  dont fight, you need to help each other! Many blessings, to you and your baby
2026614 tn?1332215626
BUT SHE HAVE HER FIRST BBY AT 14 YEARS OLD.
2026614 tn?1332215626
I THINK SOO!!
2026614 tn?1332215626
SI BUT I KANT TALK TO HER CUZ SHE WANTS TO TALK **** AND I DONT WANT TO GET IN A BAD MOOD CUZ I WOULD GO OFF ON HER.SO ILL JUST LEAVE IT LIKE THAT.IM NOT CARIN FOR NOMORE JUST ME&MY BBYDADDY&MY BBY.IF SHE DONT WANT TO TALK TO ME ITS ALL KOOL..!!
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