Fiance is addicted to porn

[one_lostmama]

I have been with my fiance for almst five years now We used to have A LOT of sex when we first got together and then I got pregnant and our son turns one in June. While i was pregnant I would try to have sex as often as I could but you know how it goes when you get a big belly in front of you. Since I had our son we dont really have much sex anymore and  he constantly throws it in my face whenever there is a fight. We have recently been more intamate and it has only been two days since we last had sex. This is not my problem. My problem is that he is constanly watching porn behind my back. I know of this now but I do not say anything to him. It used to be that i would confront him and he would say it was because we dont or werent having sex. I caught him masturbating in the bathroom this morning and watching porn and looking at porn pictures on his phone and masturbating into the trash. I do not know what to do anymore. Could he have a problem bigger than being addicted to porn? We are being intamate currently so why does he still do it? I am so lost and confused now. Please ANY advice will be greatly appreciated.

[secretyo2]

maybe he is not attracted to you anymore. he probably still love you but as a man view, i m getting used to a woman, i get tired. If she went away from her a while i begin to miss her again.

[RainLover71]

You can sort this out,you have a child together.Yes he is being selfish but he can get help.It appears to have become some what of an addiction.He needs to seek professional help,because it could also lead to him being unfaithful.90% of men and 60% of women have admitted to watching porn at sometime in there life.I think together you can work this out.Good luck.

[grannienannie]

I say if a man is loving his hands more than you, he has a big problem...I could never understand that..if you have a woman in the house why bother to masterbate? he needs to live by hiself...since thats who he giving all the love to...it only when his hand gets tired thats when he needs you? let him go...it seems that if he is masterbating in the trash he dont have no respect for you or your house either...I wouldnt waste my time..and you shouldnt either...

[teko]

It sounds like to me his committment is with his fantasy life. If coming second best is okay with you than your a better woman than me. I would leave him to his fun and go find a real guy. Who needs that? Is he rich? That might keep me around but nothin else would.