My ex-wife and I separated to "work on the marriage" and within 30 days she was sleeping with someone else.
If anything else, it appears sleazy.
Didn't you post about this before and got some pretty strong answers. Focus on the divorce and moving forward with your life before jumping into another relationship.
Yes he can use it against you and you waisted no time in moving on. Doesn't make you look good.
divorce seems to be on most people mind nowdays and not saving the marriage, i wonder whet happened to the people that used to get nmarried for love i have started a new journal about marriage and dreams ect since you have already decided there is nothing to say, except the spark does not last forever another kind of love takes its place as time goes by luck jo
I am pretty sure that it can be used against you in a divorce, but I can't say 100%. In Texas, if a spouse cheats, the other is entitled to 90% of assets in a divorce. Granted you started seeing someone after you split up, but you are still legally married. You may want to talk to your attorney, or call another one to ask just in case.
The timing to start dating anyone now, is awful... but, you know that.
It gives the perception that you've been cheating and are now dumping your husband
for this other man. Of course, it's not true... but, others, especially your husband, will think otherwise. If your soon-to-be ex is of the vindictive and hateful sort then he will most likely use the news of your involvement with this man to smear you and make you look bad in the eyes of family; friends; divorce lawyers; and, your child.
Now, if you don't care what people think; then continue seeing this man. But, it could come at a price... like your reputation.
I suggest that you put things on hold with this other man; or, at least, slow things down, considerably.
Since you've known this other man for a long time, waiting a little longer to start dating could do no harm. Keep daily contact with him; but, don't go out with him. Then, when the dust from the divorce is settled... pursue a relationship. Good luck.